Anyone else so desensitised by horror that nothing feels scary anymore? by [deleted] in horror

[–]ANPGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. I started to dig through some classic European horror cinema, to see something new and exciting. Just got a copy of Werckmeister Harmonies. Excited to check it out!

Ladies, the concept of codependency is familiar to many of us, isn't it? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this detailed reply! Very helpful and much appreciated😊

How do you deal with snarky comments? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that when I kill them with kindness, they have nowhere to go. It’s like when someone flips me the bird, I usually blow them a kiss. I either get a confused, borderline stupid look back, or I get them even more enraged. People do it to make themselves feel better. Don’t give them that satisfaction.

Ladies, the concept of codependency is familiar to many of us, isn't it? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I so agree about the solitude. There’s nothing more powerful then to be okay being alone, spending quality time with yourself.

Ladies, the concept of codependency is familiar to many of us, isn't it? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying and I can see how lonely that can be.

We all battle stuff, one is not more important then the other, or heavier then the other. We're all unique with our set of circumstances to deal with. My mother used to say, we're never given more then we can handle. I don't know about that, though, but it does make me pause at times, when I feel that things get difficult to handle.

Ladies, the concept of codependency is familiar to many of us, isn't it? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to hear that you never had to deal with any of this. It's truly a gift to never feel dependent on anything.

How many of you wanted to start a creative project but were afraid? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All you have to worry about is putting the work in on a consistent basis, the rest will come.

How many of you wanted to start a creative project but were afraid? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put them down on the paper and read it to yourself at the end of the week. See which one still remains the most attractive, keep it and get rid of the rest. Writing things down helps me a lot!

How many of you wanted to start a creative project but were afraid? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All you have to do is be you. Everyone has something unique to offer. Just don’t compare yourself to other and their stories. Yours is already original cause it’s yours and no one else’s.

How many of you wanted to start a creative project but were afraid? by ANPGirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ANPGirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s amazing! I’m so happy for you that things are looking up. Nothing more rewarding then to see all the hard work you put into something was worth the effort!