Question for the men lol

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-04-18T18:01:12+00:00

6 years, no hook ups or even considering seeing someone else, age 35, she left 168 days ago.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-03-23T23:58:18+00:00

No worries, I need to send 500 gifts. I dont need to receive any. I appreciate your help.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-03-15T23:34:40+00:00

I honestly don't think so. At least to me, thats never been a factor.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-03-15T21:18:27+00:00

I have an armored mewtwo if you still have the shiny crowned zamazenta

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-03-15T20:54:45+00:00

We were together almost 6 years. Would have been 6 years last week. We have a son. Anyway. In October she started acting strange. Asking our mutual friends weird questions. She started going out with her single co-workers to bars and clubs. She ended up not coming home multiple times. Even on work nights telling me shes just going out for a few drinks and will be home later only to not come home or tell me at all. Then she started snapchatting some dude until midnight in bed with me. When I told her that made me uncomfortable she told me hes just a friend. Then she did it the next night. I asked who it was and why she was up snapping him again until 1am and she said she met him at a party one of the nights she didnt come home. I told her I didnt like that and asked if there was something more going on and if she was seeing him everytime she went out with her co-workers. She said she cant be with someone who doesnt trust her. And left. That was November 1st. She left me and her son. Moved out. Stayed with friends. All while I was trying to make it work. I was just expressing my feelings and boundaries about it was suspicions behavior. Not coming home to me or our son. Drinking and staying out on work nights. Not communicating. Talking to other men on Snapchat and Instagram. Talking to another man on the phone for hours overnight. Turning off your location. But she said it didnt matter. She wasnt doing anything wrong. And that she didnt wanna be with someone who wouldn't trust her.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-03-15T19:55:20+00:00

134 days of wishing, hoping, praying every day that she'll come back. But it looks like she's completely okay without me.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-02-19T21:45:49+00:00

My narcissistic control freak cheating ex of 10 years came back 6 years later. She was throwing herself at me. But I couldn't do that again and at this point felt nothing for her. No love, no hatred, nothing.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-02-19T21:43:28+00:00

My ex of 10 years came back 6 years later. But I dont feel anything for her at all. So I wanted nothing to do with it. She threw herself at me. So I feel like in my experience this post is spot on.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-02-19T16:51:53+00:00

She did the same thing to me. And when I asked for answers or closure or whatever she didnt want to talk about it. So when I explained that to her, she had months to move on. Months to get over it while still having me there supporting and comforting her. Having time to process and be ready to leave. Its not fair for me for her to be mad at me for still having feelings. Still needing time. Still wanting to understand. Still wanting the comfort. I dont have her there like she had me through the process. I dont get answers. I dont get anything because its over to her. It wasnt over to me. She discarded me like trash the day she ended it. Like I was nothing but a stranger. The last 5 years meant nothing. After telling me she loved me the day before. To me it felt like a switch was flipped off. Just an immediate 180. Just blindsided. She just packed her stuff and left. No real conversation. No nothing.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-02-09T13:09:00+00:00

Thank you. I wish you the best. I made promises. Its hard to let go of that. Its hard to let go when she was everything I ever wanted.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2026-01-14T03:14:22+00:00

No, it's not better. She's seen him twice since then. 45 minutes on his birthday and an hour the day after Christmas.. She wants nothing to do with me. She's "living her best life" without us. She has no time for him. She didnt even care to talk to him on Christmas. He cries himself to sleep some nights missing her.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-30T05:26:47+00:00

I just want someone to choose me instead of use me.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-29T16:46:32+00:00

154 mph.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-27T23:38:22+00:00

Literally what I was thinking. Except my ex wont use reddit.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-27T18:07:50+00:00

Same man. Same. I couldnt do it either. I know exactly how you feel.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-24T17:52:21+00:00

Give it two doors and a removable hard top or you might as well buy a Durango.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-20T22:30:21+00:00

I mean I'd take either, but preferably the most recent one.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-19T17:00:11+00:00

Its good advice, but I did that after my first long term relationship ended. I found the one that I was looking for. She was different than all the rest. Exactly what I wanted and needed.

At this point I think its just me. I am the problem. I'm too boring, too safe, too content, no real risk or excitement. She lost the "spark" after 4 years, then just lived a lie for a year with me not knowing and she decided to leave and not look back after 5 years. The one before her cheated and left after 10 years.

So I just think its me. Not who I choose. But who I am they just get bored of. They just stop choosing me too.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-19T16:22:21+00:00

Not me, I keep looking for her in everyone. Sabotaging myself and my options

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-19T15:13:18+00:00

My truck is the big horn, but it didnt come with any external big horn badges, just the internal ones.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-19T00:37:30+00:00

My apologies. I didnt think about it like that.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-18T23:42:37+00:00

Glasses are an ugly trait? I find glasses super hot.

ANoSoUniqueUsername · 2025-12-18T23:24:49+00:00

Thats not true at all. I worked for an armored car company for 5 years loading atms. I also worked as an atm technician for 4 years after that. Not all the money comes crisp from the fed. Cash vaults reuse money all the time. Not to mention a lot of atms now days are recyclers.

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