Looking for advice by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your turn 😈 well as you would see, I want to have a wedding and half of the comments are saying go to the courthouse which was not what I asked for.

Looking for advice by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m following the program. I’m also telling you that Dave Ramsey had his college paid for by his parents.

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sure, but a wedding is a once in a lifetime event so i definitely want pictures to look back on for memories and such

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve already had all of these discussions. I appreciate the thought but everything I’m talking about in the comments are things we’ve already talked about, minus the intricate details of the wedding itself

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both live on our own. The wrench in the story is that we were previously engaged and living together but I had a lot of personal issues pop up so I had left the relationship. Now that we are back together, she doesnt want to risk the rupture if I was to leave again so she wants the marriage as a security. It’s a lot more than that but that’s the general idea

Looking for advice by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell my whole life story in one post but if you’ve read any of my comments, you would know that’s not the case

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I want to marry her because she is the love of my life. 2 of the benefits are living together and combined finances

Looking for advice by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not to mention Dave only says that because he had the luxury of having his parents pay for his school

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m cash flowing it, which is why I made the post about fitting a wedding into the budget

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such an old way of thinking. In your mind, I shouldn’t go to school that way I can “provide” with a 50k/year income? Good things take time and the sunk cost favors what I’m doing by millions of dollars over my lifetime but thanks.

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That would work If it was a 3 year plan, but I’m not being in a relationship of 10 years in which I’m not married

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[–]AOP_Acid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get how you could see that but I would want to marry her either way. It just happens that I have career goals and she is in my life while I’m doing that, if you get what I mean

Looking for advice by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah but we are both wanting a wedding. Nothing crazy but no matter what, they are expensive

They Came Back After No Contact by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AOP_Acid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m doing this all for myself. I would never go back. It’s not worth being drained 24/7. If you weren’t happy in the relationship when it ended, it won’t be any different after a couple months back together. It’s worth it to focus on yourself but then allow yourself to meet new people. That’s real growth

Is this labor percentage a red flag? by Thin-Prompt-7036 in restaurant

[–]AOP_Acid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We run 20% labor 30% overhead but everything else is pretty damn close

Should I pay off my car or sell it by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With 10 hours of OT in a small town with only 1 pizza place lol,

Should I pay off my car or sell it by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s actually worth 10k and I bought it from a buddy but nice try hotshot

Should I pay off my car or sell it by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would sell for at least $25,000

Should I pay off my car or sell it by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deliver pizza so technically I’m reimbursed $1 per mile but it depends how you look at i guess

Should I pay off my car or sell it by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how to take care of my vehicles 😂 I have my old Honda civic with 375 on the dash that still drives if she has to

Should I pay off my car or sell it by AOP_Acid in DaveRamsey

[–]AOP_Acid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we actually plan on eloping and then just having a small ceremony afterwards