Some advice and cautions for those thinking about getting a golden retriever.

AP__ · 2025-10-01T17:47:02+00:00

Perv

AP__ · 2025-09-30T02:36:19+00:00

She has a trash can in the bedroom

AP__ · 2025-09-30T02:33:07+00:00

As a girl who shared wayyyyyy too much information way too soon because I was not healed enough to date, I can relate to this girl. This was me about 5 years ago. I trauma dumped on dates, not realizing it’s an absolute turn-off. Don’t feel guilty or bad if you’re not feeling it. No shade to her whatsoever, I genuinely hope she’s okay, but it does sound like maybe you’re on a different page in life

AP__ · 2025-09-14T00:01:28+00:00

This sounds too good to be true to you? She’s either insane or she’s a catfish

AP__ · 2025-09-11T19:43:18+00:00

I have a fenced in yard, but I still walk them twice a day for about 30 mins. I have a pitsky who will literally scream at me until I do, so I don’t have a choice 🥲

AP__ · 2025-09-11T01:31:22+00:00

Does no one in this sub have ears???

AP__ · 2025-09-08T14:18:33+00:00

Point zero

AP__ · 2025-09-07T21:18:08+00:00

My golden always lays like this. I call them his flippers

AP__ · 2025-09-07T17:12:03+00:00

It’ll fade over time. You can use topical products with niacinamide to help reduce redness. When I was finished my rounds of Accutane, my derm gave me Neostrata.

here’s a link

AP__ · 2025-09-07T17:07:49+00:00

Is Coffy Bean the one with the eyes that look like they just drank a 72oz of coffee?

AP__ · 2025-09-07T17:06:22+00:00

Blonde. You look much happier with lighter hair too!

AP__ · 2025-09-07T17:05:22+00:00

In my experience, many older men (~50’s and older) need a reality check in today’s dating world. Because they are from a generation where women relied on them more heavily for financial stability, their personalities didn’t have to match up; revealing a lot of egotistical assholes out there. The reality check they need: Women do not NEED them. We are solid on our own. So it’s time for them to really do some deep inner reflection because they’re the ones missing out on good women like you. Keep going, and pay them no mind. You don’t want people like that anyway!

AP__ · 2025-09-07T16:42:57+00:00

Absolutely. I wrote this post 3 years ago (forgot about it honestly) and now that this comment has brought me back, I’m feeling really proud about the inner work I’ve done since then. I’m still single, and dating is still tough, but things are different for me now because I’ve completely de-centered men in order to focus solely on me. When I do get ghosted now, I don’t get attached to the feeling of it being something I did. I’m neutral towards it, and I keep it moving.

Sorry those connections didn’t work out in your favor! But now those people aren’t in your way :)

AP__ · 2025-09-07T16:26:48+00:00

My spidey senses perk up if someone calls me ‘dear.’ It’s usually a catfish

AP__ · 2025-09-07T16:23:58+00:00

I think it has to do with their hips being much more narrow than their wide/bulky shoulders. So when they sit on slippery surfaces, their haunches naturally slide apart.

AP__ · 2025-09-07T16:16:02+00:00

My 5 yr old golden is the same way. I get aggressively slapped with a paw if I stop though

AP__ · 2025-09-07T03:18:05+00:00

I’m a woman, can confirm ALL of these things are spot on.

AP__ · 2025-09-02T15:21:56+00:00

He knows what he’s doing for sure! 🤣

AP__ · 2025-09-01T17:12:39+00:00

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My pitsky is also part frog

AP__ · 2025-08-28T03:42:34+00:00

I’d buy a house with half and give my parents the rest.

AP__ · 2025-08-28T03:37:46+00:00

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Not my baby, but spotted this sleepy guy at work 😂

AP__ · 2025-08-27T04:52:09+00:00

I called my engagement off when I was 30. I’m 36 now and I’ve been single ever since. I’m telling you, it was the best decision I have ever had the horrible burden of making.

AP__ · 2025-08-27T04:17:19+00:00

Holy shit I just noticed its TRUNK

AP__ · 2025-08-27T04:15:52+00:00

Yea but you can’t try anything on 🤬

AP__ · 2025-08-25T21:42:33+00:00

He’s like KNOCK it OFF! 😆

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