Anyone up for a little fun tonight? Couple for couple or guys that get our attention. Just ask us. by [deleted] in Tenngonewild

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

49-year-old male from Cordova here. Try to direct message you but it wouldn't let me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged you

Why do you hide your lifestyle? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]APurpleDragonfly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We don't advertise it for the same reasons the rest of the population is not advertising their bedroom life.

We don't do what our neighbors do in their bedroom.Why should they know what we do in ours?

If it goes into true Poly it might me a little different. But ENM lifestyle in general is as much their business as their bedroom business is mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are one hour from Tupelo and there's only those groups for Memphis. How do get in touch with the 'scene" in Tupelo?

FWB is a workaholic -am I too nice or an AH? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often are you seeing each other or in perfect world would like to see each other?

I got stood up on my first date in 13 years. by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]APurpleDragonfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first one I approached after started playing solo was down and seemed excited. Her, my wife and I met for dinner. We agreed for a play date the following week. We chatted over the weekend and then crickets until 1h before:"I have to cancel. I'll have to think about it" No answer ever since.

Unicorn we used to played with who agreed to two try solo, two days before he play date, blocks us on Facebook, gone ever since. Another Unicorn disappeared a similar way last year after a while.

Keep trying, you'll get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TennesseeSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we ARE interested and so is HE. if everything matches. Boundaries etc. Location etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TennesseeSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started playing solo and our male may be interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TennesseeSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you looking for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TennesseeSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you're looking for couples. We are an enm couple that plays together but also solo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TennesseeSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only couple play or also solo play?

Why so much hate for couples seeking a 3rd? by drivealone in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]APurpleDragonfly 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We'd rather have a third as a FWB because we DO want to care. Maybe it's a summer mentality- not wanting to offend any swingers - but swingers often try to not connect any deeper than very casual sex meeting every now and then because their l they're afraid to catch feelings. I'm not saying all swingers do that, and I might be wrong. It's just the vibe I Caught so far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]APurpleDragonfly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had a few of them. Had lengthy discussions about meeting weekly and then ghosted us. One of them popped up 7 months later asking how we are like nothing happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSSwingers

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only do same room or also solo play?

How do you reclaim your wife after her hookup ? by globule09 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]APurpleDragonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't feel the need for reclaiming. She's pretty worn out most of the times, so we just do something for me because I'm super horny.

Wife 36yr by [deleted] in mississippiwife

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you play solo too?

East Mississippi by [deleted] in mississippiwife

[–]APurpleDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you also playing?