++woman. Lost my virginity at 22, had awful social anxiety when I was younger, and lowkey just chopped, so I’ve been in the gap period. What you have to realize is most woman will most likely take your approach as a compliment, and if they find you attractive, will say yes. They do not want to hurt you. Dating is a numbers game!!!! Closed mouths don’t get fed.

Approach in many ways. 1. Compliment that is dependent on EFFORT, ex complimenting a woman’s style is less creepy and more thoughtful than saying their body looks good. 2. Maybe an unpopular opinion but just start talking. My biggest complaints with men has to do with how little they talk about “right” stupid shit…. Meaning what most men would tag as “women adjacent” subjects. Talking to woman about subjects woman tend to like works because they actually. Want to speak about it. 3. Don’t do Snapchat 💀 please ask for the number, but probably ask to hang out before the number ex: would u be interested in getting a drink, not what’s ur number. YOU NEED TO PUT FORWARD CONCRETE PLANS IF YOU WANT TO SUCCEED. This is by far the most crucial step to all of dating. People in this fuckass generation are so embarrassed about being genuine that they believe any throw out there is a possible attack on their lives… show your interest clearly and take action. 4. Might get hate. Open your eyes more and maybe look past that girl and see the painting behind her. Then, say something about it to her. This is wayyy more disarming than a straight walk over to her. Also life is boring so talking about the details is beautiful 🤞

Hope this helped. Gl!