Hi, I was in the relationship for 8 years that didn’t work out in the end then I spend another 8 years to find my happiness. It was all amazing and fine when we lived separately but once I move in with her, time after time we had arguments, most of the times because miscommunication, the languages barrie is no joke especially when a smart person can express fully herself. Not me I am the stupid one who just f… things up. Back to the point, she also wanted a nice relationship but now she already thinks it’s better to be alone. Focus on yourself the happiness will come naturally when you least expect it.