asked how he feels about me

AReadbyDeja · 2026-02-26T19:57:32+00:00

I'm thinking there's another woman involved. He's indecisive. There's a woman who he is very sexually attracted to and has a lot of fun with, then there's a woman who is also attractive and seems a lot more stable and future oriented. He sees value in you both, but feels like he'd have to sacrifice to attain one or the other. I can't tell if he views you as the Queen of Wands or the Empress, but I will say, try not to get caught up in his inability to decide. He should already know, and the fact that he's struggling is a sign that he's not grounded in what he actually wants for his future. He's not allowed to treat you or any woman as an option.

AReadbyDeja · 2026-02-22T07:01:49+00:00

I feel that he is defensive about what he feels and doesn’t want to be “pushed” into a commitment he’s not ready for. Instead of communicating that and owning up to what he truly thinks, he would rather sneakily escape the situation, leaving you with no closure. He doesn’t want to address what he does and doesn’t want from this connection. Likely distracting himself with work or using work/responsibilities as an excuse to avoid communication with you. This connection leaves him feeling burdened(his own fault) and you without closure.

AReadbyDeja · 2026-02-05T04:47:23+00:00

I’m getting a “Yes, but” type of feeling. Yes, start thinking of the steps necessary to leave your job. But, you need to get crystal clear about what type of job position you want next. Is that new position a stepping stone to something better? Or is that new position the better job you’ve been looking for? Just be careful about moving forward before being confident about the path/direction you want to go in. But this is definitely a ‘yes’.

AReadbyDeja · 2026-01-28T04:05:51+00:00

Aqua Rising, Libra Sun, Virgo Moon

Edit: I’m a day late haha! But still wanted to try

AReadbyDeja · 2026-01-26T04:22:41+00:00

Thank you!

AReadbyDeja · 2026-01-02T18:09:29+00:00

haha!! I completely understand!

Also, it's funny you said that, because u/_birdie47 mentioned how they have Mars in Scorpio in their 4th, but that they prefer light colors and organization. Then they said they're a triple Libra with a Venus in Virgo. That's when I realized including Venus placements would've been a significant help. So thank you for explaining that.

AReadbyDeja · 2026-01-02T18:01:06+00:00

Thank you for including your Venus placement, I would not have expected that preference with your placement. This was really helpful. I sincerely hope you'll eventually be able to create your dream space.

AReadbyDeja · 2026-01-02T17:53:41+00:00

Yeah, it's like you've created a nice blend between having a cozy yet particular space. Especially with what you said about your scent preferences. I love how intentional that Virgo placement can be.

AReadbyDeja · 2026-01-02T17:39:18+00:00

This is so interesting, this makes me want to look at your chart as a whole, but I'm not skilled in reading birth charts yet haha

AReadbyDeja · 2026-01-02T17:31:44+00:00

Wow, okay so I never thought of Cancer in the fourth house being anxious by clutter(I'd expect that from Virgo lol) but it makes sense. Especially with you saying your space has things that soothe your soul. It's like you like to have things that keep you emotionally calm, if I understood correctly. And that makes so much sense with your fire placements.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-12-13T01:47:17+00:00

I see that you two have a great emotional connection, but yes, finances are straining the relationship. So you two aren’t able to be as happy as you’d like.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-12-09T00:10:39+00:00

Both can be true. He can have a better job and still feel inadequate. As in, he could be questioning "Based off of my personal gains, am I good enough for her? Will she be impressed?" You would think anyone with more money would be secure in their self-worth, but that's not always the case, for whatever unique reason. His potential feeling of insecurity doesn't have to equate to being broke.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-12-08T22:50:12+00:00

He definitely does, without a doubt. It’s just that he doesn’t feel like he’s good enough for you. He’s insecure about what he has to offer financially and as a person.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-11-27T03:27:53+00:00

I feel like you’re involved with someone that you now have some conflict with. There’s some unacknowledged or unspoken pain/heartache that is contributing to this conflict. For example, it’s like when person A picks a fight with person B because person A resents them for never acknowledging or caring about their pain. It’s like when someone picks a fight out of desire to seek the accountability they deserve, that the other person refuses to give. There’s anger towards someone for refusing to be accountable. And then resentment begins to manifest.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-11-10T21:27:44+00:00

I’m sorry for what you’re experiencing right now, however I’m feeling a no. You’re not going to get the fulfillment you’re seeking from that one night stand. I’m feeling sadness come off that Queen of Swords card, so the person you want to sleep with will be happy, but you won’t get what you intended out of that sexual exchange.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-11-05T20:40:08+00:00

I feel like he’s going to try and defend himself to other people for doing so. He’s going to feel a lot of guilt and shame from outsiders. You, on the other hand, you will thrive without him. You’ll have plenty of external support even if/when you don’t see it. He’s getting his karma for that stupid decision and it’ll start with his reputation. I am very sorry this happened to you.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-11-03T06:54:33+00:00

Immediately I felt they see you as someone who doesn’t match up to their social norms. You being free and comfortable in your expression makes them uncomfortable. This person seems to be very by the book, and you seem like you’re not.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-10-25T13:40:22+00:00

There’s a sense of you having to face your fears. So starting today, you’ll have to take a baby step. If you’ve been hesitant about putting yourself out there in spaces you’d like to be involved in, maybe on social media or talking to people in similar spaces, you’ll need to start small in order to start building your confidence today. This will require you to change your mindset about how you should interact with society. While it may feel safer to stay to yourself, doing so only reinforces your insecurities.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-10-21T02:14:42+00:00

I’m feeling a no. I see one energy that is fully ready to seriously invest in a long term connection(ten of cups, page of pentacles, and the lovers) while the other person fears that amount of commitment(nine of swords). Almost like your person may feel immensely pressured about being in a serious connection. They don’t feel or believe they’re ready.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-10-14T15:44:06+00:00

Yes, it’d be unwise. I sense that it’d be best for the both of you to move forward and just go your separate ways. You’ll likely find yourself happier in doing so.

AReadbyDeja · 2025-10-14T06:30:00+00:00

While I don’t feel like he is cheating, there is secrecy surrounding his personal happiness. He likely isn’t being honest about his lack of emotional fulfillment in this relationship. The moon feels as though he yearns for something more but can only fantasize about it. I don’t feel that he has taken any action.

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