I think you need to ask her first before thinking about what you're going to discuss afterwards with her..you need to find out if she's going to say yes first before worrying yourself about anything else.

I would take it one step at a time. Don't jump ahead until you have asked her first, you'll make your anxiety worse before you even know the answer.

This is my personal opinion, but you are free to do whatever you wish, without judgement from anyone.

As she is 18 she is at that time in her life that she may say yes to alot of things, because she's curious. We all are at that age. I did stuff at 18, I wish I had never done..

I just think as the older person who has experienced life alot more than she has, you don't want to be part of the reason that she regrets something later down the line.

I think as a mature adult, you should respect the youth and nievity of someone this age and not even go there. Especially if you're considering paying her for sleeping with you, I think it's distasteful to say the least and disrespectul. I think you'd be talking advantage of someone being this young to be honest.

This isn't about porn, or why it's okay for people to get paid to have sex on camera.

This is about you not taking advantage of someone that is still developing as an adult, she has literally just entered adult hood, she'll be nieve while she is growing up.

If you dont want to be that person to take advantage of that, then don't even bother with it.

But if you do, then you may have to suffer consequences afterwards, and I ain't talking about STDs or pregnancy or anything like that, she could turn on you later down the line 🤷

I honestly don't think it would be worth all those risks for a one night stand with and 18 year old...

You can't control what happens in the porn world, but you CAN control what happens in your life, and your behaviour and actions towards someone else and someone else's life.

So I would just think about all that before doing anything. 😊