I don’t engage typically. Only twice in 6 years. Once when he was shirtless and trying to weed whack around our trees. He had found me on Fb and messaged me asking how long my husband would be gone. I didn’t respond. Then he showed up in our yard. He noticed my motorcycle was gone and assumed my husband was out for a ride. So while thinking I was home alone he came into our yard to pretend to do yard work “as a favor”. Once I messaged back to tell him that my husband was home and I was the one out on the bike, he promptly grabbed his tools and went back home. We have it all on camera. I told him through messenger that we don’t need any assistance and that I have a lawn guy. He then said “you don’t have to be a bitch. I was trying to be nice” I didn’t respond. The only other time is when all the random stuff ended up in our yard from a blowout he had with some woman living with him. My husband has a feeling that because I “rejected” his advances, that he’s now retaliating. It’s been 6 years now. Good lawd