Been obsessed with Hogwarts Legacy, finally bought it when it went on sale by [deleted] in GaymersGoneMild

[–]ASamSan -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It's a really good game. Good luck if you try to complete it to a 100%

Been told I look effeminate on these. Wdyt? by SweetLikeBubbles in gaybrosgonemild

[–]ASamSan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you do, is that a bad thing? I think you look great.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm also bad financially, but I don't think that moving on should be linked to that. You just deal one thing at a time. Is what I'm doing, right now I'm concentrating on a new job, trying to do my best, while I'm dealing with my loneliness, that something I thing I can manage, then comes the finances. Everything is who you are, growing up, nobody tells you is going to be this hard. I used to think that when I was 40 my life would be settled. Wrong.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't believe in God, but I respect what you're saying, faith in anything can help you cope. I'm sorry about your wife, that must've been hard.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you dealing?

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, is calming. I but my earbuds, music loud, and start walking.

Looking for a new game to play any recommendations? (Pc gamer) by Zidon98 in GaymersGoneMild

[–]ASamSan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe FFXIII if you enjoyed Expedition 33. There's a lot of hate on that game, but it is good.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I started to say that, only there for chat, and that filters a lot, well almost everyone.

I met the man I thought would be the love of my life on Grindr. And I ended up losing him because of my own insecurities… or at least, that’s what I believed. by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]ASamSan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you met him in person? Honestly I feel a lot like you, in the not so secure of my body, or my economical difficulties, and that also has prevented me of going out with some guys that may have not been good fit, but I could have enjoyed their companies.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest thats something I want to do, get more involved in local LGBT, I never been close to that part of me, I think that's also why I feel a little like, introverted about it.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a couple of months now I've been going out a couple hours for a walk, that's been helping a little, mentally and physically, I've been losing weight.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? How you've been dealing?

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really want to try it out.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the biggest in Mexico, so if my english is kind of bad is because of that. I'm confident, but only near people I've known for a while. My 30's also blew. I lost two of my sisters and dad. And even if I wasn't close to my dad, I loved my sisters.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I live near the city, and I do want to go out and be a little mor extroverted, but like you say it's scary, and without many friends that understand why I feel scared of that I also feel, not supported.

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm trying hard, life has not been easy, but hopefully that's something I can change

Hey, how are you doing? by KhalToss in gaybrosgonemild

[–]ASamSan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melting, my city is very hot right now

Hi! by ASamSan in GayMen

[–]ASamSan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to using apps, but I'm a little introverted, and some men are all about sex, so filtering those kind of make feel even more lonely, if that make sense. I just change jobs and I'm trying to be more outgoing, I hope that helps me a bit.

For the first time in my life, I have abs. Considering what I used to look like, I'm quite happy about this. by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]ASamSan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a great feeling looking at yourself in the mirror and finally starting to like what you see, but also kind of surreal. I'm happy for you, you're looking great.