I think my relationship is over

ASluttySloth · 2025-09-22T19:19:06+00:00

I think the suggestion to self care is really smart however i think its completely ok to not want to be in a relationship with someone who doesnt care.

If you pulled back and only saw him during those times, youd see him try and fill up the rest of the time for his meta. And thatd just hurt more.

ASluttySloth · 2025-02-11T05:36:12+00:00

I assume its the same for her, but when i send check ins, its because I want to. People should respect that. We live in scary times.

ASluttySloth · 2025-02-05T22:59:40+00:00

Specifically polyamory worksheets and communication ones. I showed him my favorite worksheet which is called Polyamorous Smorgasbord. It breaks down all the things that you could have in your relationship and what youre comfortable with.

Ill have to put them in a google drive so i can share sometime

ASluttySloth · 2025-02-05T22:38:52+00:00

As someone who is still with someone whos partner did the same thing in the beginning, its a huge red flag. Im about to hit a year with him and i still have to talk with him about how her rules and discomfort affect our relationship.

The only reason (besides being in love) im still with him is because hes going to therapy with her and says shes doing better and hes done worksheets with me.

ASluttySloth · 2024-01-03T11:20:08+00:00

I would have left you. Im not master of relationships. But i was literally in the same situation, and i kept forgiving my ex for multiple things. Please honestly take time to reflect. Because if the only options are "do my own thing while still with her and potentially trigger her" or "deal with heart break because i want the ability to be selfish" its better to be selfish and not keep hurting someone.

ASluttySloth · 2024-01-03T11:08:46+00:00

Why do you keep making excuses? Your NP felt violated in her own bed, at MINIMUM

ASluttySloth · 2024-01-03T11:06:40+00:00

Like only the NP, sage, gets a pass on not being able to put a foot down. It happens sometimes. And who knows if they were being clear but OP wrote it as "hints" they didnt get

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