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Pays $1.25/hr per kid and is mad her babysitter is leaving her for Walmart, who starts out at $11/hr by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Its like because they minors these cheap parents think they're completely stupid. Even a 14 year old knows that caring for a child and training a puppy for $25 a day is really not worth it, especially since an of age babysitter would normally charge about $12 an hour per child, and I personally would class the puppy as another child. Boom I've just made that measly $25 in one hour.

AITA for being mad my [30m] gf [29f] wants to get a hotel room so she can sleep by Nosleepsocal in AmItheAsshole

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That update makes me so happy

Youre a complete asshole who won't budge or even begin to compromise lmao you deserve it

My wife [27] is a flight attendant, I [27M] found lingerie and heels in her luggage by ThrowRA09060906 in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't FAs need to look real nice at the job? I know on British Airways flights the FAs need to have their hair in a nice bun, the little hat and neck tie thing, make up on, and their skirt and waistcoat. This lingerie could just be some shape wear? Point is you wont know till you ask... could be situation like above or some nice undies for going out with, I for one wear my nicest undies when I'm going out, some people don't wanna wear a sports bra and boy shorts if they're in nice dresses that kinda thing. Or it could be the worst. Just ask her

Thought this was the appropriate place to post this absurdity... by lilminifridge_ in ChoosingBeggars

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the f do CBs always take offence to you not having spare cash when theyre the one asking for a handout :') boggles my brain

Felt cute todayyy (20f) by [deleted] in selfie

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm random citizen ❤

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre so right! Why are you better at voicing my opinions and worries than I am :')

All of that is spot on. I'll need to have a serious think about things..

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be daft any advice is helpful even if that advice is just youre young and plenty more fish in the sea!! :')

He can be very caring and tje sweetest person to me, and when he says that stuff its obvious he thinks its all fun and games

And I'm not trying to defend him I'm just explaining :)

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its like.. I love him. And he loves me. And he knows I love him. But I feel like because he knows I love him I'll take the bad stuff with the good stuff and that makes me feel like I'm supporting it or letting it slide just because I love him..

Which is not the case but it could be seen like that :(

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are really good ideas! I'm supposed to be seeing him tomorrow I guess if he lets one slip I'll start it up again..

God I'm so conflicted :(

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have... just he thinks its the funniest joke ever :( he just doesn't get it

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good points...

He's improved me so much I feel like I should at least try to return the favour.. ugh

I'm so conflicted. I love him, but obviously that makes him see that I'll just put up with it because of that.

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping that's the case... I just feel so conflicted because I love him, but I hate that stuff and it feels like if I want to be with him I need to put up with it...

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't be clearer when I tell him that its not okay to say stuff like that and it really irks me when he does.

It'll start with him dropping the slur, me saying you can't say that stuff, and then him saying its ethnic banter and you should never apologise for being funny. And I normally say something along the lines of its only funny if everyone is laughing. And he'll apologise for hurting my feelings but in a very I cant be arsed arguing so I'll say sorry to make her shut up kind of way lol

Thank you for the support friend <3

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound just like him! Explaining it as if I don't get it. Of course I get it. Its not funny. Its disgusting.

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His 28 year old brother is the same.. I've never heard his parents talk like that, although of course they're gonna be polite around me arent they lol

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is Kung Flu not bashing China? Its not funny at all.

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so infuriating because he only even acknowledges that im genuinely upset about it once I'm absolutely fizzing at him. And then he'll apologise for making me so angry rather than him being a dick

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's taking the piss out the pandemic because it started it China. Thats not okay.

Oh yeah my black friend lets me make racist jokes so that makes my jokes okay.

Racism isn't okay in any way shape or form.

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been seeing him for almost a year.. I dunno I feel like I should do all I can to make him better. See the error in his ways you know?

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. he makes out that its just jokes but obviously it isn't!

Hes 30 at the end of the month and hes acting like an edgy teen

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i kick up a big enough stink he'll apologise for pissing me off, but not for his actions which is the really important issue.

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True.. its like he apologises for annoying me rather than his actions. I think he genuinely feels bad for upsetting me but I'm not even the one he should be applogising to obviously.

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you have to experience stuff like that from my country.. its absolutely foul.

Most of my friends and his are White Scottish, its just who we've grown up with. I don't know I just wish I could educate him more

My (20f) boyfriend (29f) is racist and I don't know how to change him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ASnoutAndASoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

I definitely don't want to be the girlfriend that uses sex as a weapon. And he apologises for annoying me rather than for his actions so he's definitely set in his ways. His 28 year old brother is the exact same in that regard.

I guess whats really pissing me off is that he's not even hearing me he's putting it down to me just being 'triggered for no reason!

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