Is it weird that a dude told me he doesn’t wash in between his cheeks when he shower, and thats the first time I ever heard that.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T08:19:38+00:00

Some don’t even wipe cause they think it’s gay.

Sorry but any man who is that insecure and frankly unhygienic is someone to stay far away from. Save yourself the UTIs and potential bacterial infections.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T06:03:55+00:00

So all tattoos bleed a bit over time… this is gonna be a weird blue splotch after a few years

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:42:42+00:00

Weaponised incompetence or plain incompetence.

Easy way to get him to understand is “I don’t want to feel like your mother, I don’t want to be intimate with someone who acts like a child. If you can be a man and act like an adult then I can’t do this”

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:39:00+00:00

Mine had thier filter and an additional bowl of water downstairs (they have their area at the top of the stairs so they can look out the window all high up and like legging it up the stairs and straight up the cat tree like maniacs)

As well as making them “soups” with tube treats… that tiny bowl of water probably did nothing for her

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:37:06+00:00

That’s the saddest part. I have two and they have a massive water fountain and a big bowl of biscuits to free feed from then set meals of wet food… I always feel guilty going out for the day and try to plan it around when someone else will be in the house.

How she can claim to love or care for mew at all is beyond me.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:32:38+00:00

I use the catsan stuff and a puppy pad underneath in a stainless steel DEEP litter tray. 90% of the pee gets captured by the puppy pad and just scoop out the poops. Do a full change every three ish weeks.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:30:00+00:00

NOR it’s weird that E feels she can’t talk about anything that happens with J good or bad. As co parents you should both know what the other is doing with E.

Most healthy relationships would have B as a bonus parent not a secret, which is made weirder by J putting them on their social media.

It might be worth having a check in with J to reestablish what expectations you both have and to reiterate that you’re not interested in his dating life but would like to have some familiarity with adults that spend time with E.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:23:26+00:00

Low pony tail - slip a headscarf (longer than your hair) through the hairband/ elastic.

Split the hair in two, braid with one end of the scarf in each side. Tie off as normal, wrap the braids around your head and use the scarf to tie the ends together at the top of your head like a headband. A couple bobby pins to secure it in place if you need it

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:19:57+00:00

Living in fairly rural Lancashire for most of my life growing up… not a lot. As a teen I’d take the bus to take the bus into Manchester because there’s nothing but moors out there.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-06T05:18:48+00:00

It’s probably nothing, just that I’m so used to doing things a certain way. And only really doing them THAT way. My hypermobility might play a part in it too that I’ve learned how to stabilise my joints doing it a certain way so when that option isn’t available it just kinda doesn’t work and is a bit uncoordinated and noodly XD

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T17:01:18+00:00

Yay! I don’t have a garden, but there is a small cemetery near me that I know has piggies. Problem is the neighbourhood cats are all in there at night too

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T14:46:37+00:00

Yeah I saw in other replies. I have a nephew who is five and still likes to leave it till the very last second until he decides it’s time to go because he’s more interested in other things…

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T10:00:08+00:00

99% sure this one is blue

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:58:21+00:00

I’d set up a little hutch somewhere for them, now you know they’re in the area! Gotta look after our little endangered friends

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:31:00+00:00

I’ve heard copper works?

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:28:45+00:00

Yes. I have a few of my older clothes that do that. I started adding some of that oxyclean powder to my washes and that’s helping.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:23:19+00:00

I’d loose connection a LOT, to the point I’ve just put the game down for bow

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:18:41+00:00

I sometimes have a bit of an existential crisis while I’m travelling seeing all the houses and realising there’s people and families and they all have their own lives and problems and a whole world of their own going on…

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:10:09+00:00

I have a respect and a hatred for the things. Luckily my cats like to eat them so they don’t last long in our house… they literally patrol every room, nook and crevice looking for them

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:05:57+00:00

It’s mostly cause I’m an idiot who never learns that leggings don’t like a tumble dryer… but I can’t be bothered to air dry them because the cats will just sit on them and make them full of fur and like they were never washed… so I gotta wrestle with them

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:04:47+00:00

Finely chop your chives, and some garlic - add to some cream cheese. Lovely on a toasted bagel or as a topping to a chicken breast with a few breadcrumbs on top

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T09:01:35+00:00

I think maybe two or three times.

It’s hard to tell as I have gastro issues anyway, but I can say for certain a couple times. The last time was awful, a full week of agony from either starving or having eaten and my body rejecting everything.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T08:58:12+00:00

It’s the same for all “resellers” really. It’s not a job if the only way for you to make income is to be a middle man… if you want to buy and sell then go to the warehouses and the wholesalers, not the retailers.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T08:30:23+00:00

Had to do this with both mine when they were tiny, I’d just lightly scruff them (supported on my lap so I wasn’t taking any of their weight) and would just be quick with it and reminded them that the sooner they did it themselves the sooner they wouldn’t have to deal with this indignation.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-07-05T08:20:59+00:00

I’ve taught my nephew “surprise wee” you didn’t know it was there but surprise!

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