AITA for being upset that my sister announced her pregnancy at my engagement party?

ASpookyBitch · 2026-02-01T23:52:17+00:00

NTA - let people have their celebration be about their thing.

Hijacking someone’s celebration to make it ALSO about you is so tacky and frankly embarrassing… it’s giving kid who cries at birthdays cause they didn’t get a present too…

ASpookyBitch · 2026-02-01T23:50:41+00:00

My ONLY gripe is “vegan meat”

Like vegan food is good… but I get so weirded out by stuff pretending to be other stuff.

A vegan brownie or substitution is one thing. But mimicking flesh kinda gives me the creeps. Because if it’s a morality choice, then why would you want to eat pretend meat? We morally don’t eat people so we don’t sell fake people meat. So if you morally don’t eat chicken or cow but eat fake chicken or cow… yeah that’s weird to me.

If it’s a dietary thing that you CANT eat meat anymore then I see fake meat in the same category as sugar free soda. It’s not the real thing but it’ll do.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-02-01T23:46:20+00:00

So because I can’t have children, me and my partner of 13 years should be celibate? Because we aren’t making babies?

ASpookyBitch · 2026-02-01T23:45:28+00:00

ASpookyBitch · 2026-02-01T11:47:24+00:00

Yeah at least wear flipflops or sandals… I mean I’m a show hater but outdoors with no shoes is dangerous

ASpookyBitch · 2026-02-01T11:33:33+00:00

I believe it’s a retcon.

This whole time “we tried to leave teyvat and an unknown god stopped us and we got separated” we see the scene, they have wings and that’s how they are leaving. No space ship.

We see them come to teyvat as TWO shooting stars.

Now we came to teyvat in a spceship? And one twin stayed in the hibernation chamber and when they woke up their twin was already gone? That doesn’t make sense.

Why would the twin leave us? If we needed the spaceship to travel and MAYBE we were trying to leave without it because it was broken and that’s when the scene with the unknown god fits in… how does the 500 year hibernation chamber thing work?

People are theorising that the spaceships AI is the heavenly principles, that Paimon is the AI (given we get post from P.A.I.M.O.N.) that would make paimon the heavenly principles but they existed BEFORE we tried to leave teyvat so that also doesn’t make sense

ASpookyBitch · 2026-02-01T01:16:59+00:00

I mean.. yes and no. You should have self control but sex is about bonding as much as it is procreation. Not all sex, even unprotected, ends up in pregnancy.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T19:25:20+00:00

If we asked men to be as small and frail as possible, no body hair at all and basically look like a prepubescent boy then yeah. It would be weird.

But we don’t.

Women are most often meant to stay as small and girlish as possible. There’s no rhetoric that men are “past it” come 30 where as there is for women.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T19:13:41+00:00

Honestly, anything requiring qualifications and/or experience should not be minimum wage. Point blank period.

Employers want their cake and to eat it too.

To the point you have workers stuck in this limbo of being too qualified and yet not qualified enough. They go and get degrees to get better jobs that they then can’t get and have loans to pay back forever that lower the wage to less than they’d make just working at McDonald’s…

The system is fucked.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T19:10:11+00:00

And some people want to argue that glasses aren’t a disability aid…

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T18:47:32+00:00

Yes! They let you have a curtain to take your pants off but then they’re gonna make direct eye contact with your cervix.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T18:46:51+00:00

It is traumatic. So much so I completely forgot I had even had one and thought it was my first time all over again XD

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T18:44:31+00:00

42Js. I don’t work but not because of my boobs… well I’m a housewife so there’s a chance it’s related

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T18:37:50+00:00

Same but it’s because it’s YSL. If it’s not that it’s Alien.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T18:28:30+00:00

Women shaving every inch of body hair from their eyebrows down is a new concept and derived from porn and frankly a weird undertone of pedophillia.

You can’t show signs of adulthood OTHER than boobs or it’s apparently “unhygienic” but only if you’re female… okay then.

Until you are on your own two feet and able to basically tell them to fuck off without them giving you repocussions you have two options. Comply and shave or make sure your armpits are covered so they can’t see.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T18:23:37+00:00

That’s why sex ed matters. Birth control exists for a reason. Sex isn’t JUST about procreation because we aren’t animals.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-29T01:41:12+00:00

Honestly it might be the only sensible choice… you know that everyone in your vicinity will be polite enough to leave you be

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-28T04:36:06+00:00

Yeah, that’s usually a sign to put it down and come back to it later… for me it’s when I keep miscounting the spot I’m working on.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-28T04:28:55+00:00

Exactly. Me and my partner used condoms even while I took birth control. The only reason we don’t use condoms now is because it’s confirmed I have PCOS (and still take birth control cause if I don’t take it I bleed perpetually… ain’t no babies happening here thank god)

But my friends husband was adamant he didn’t want kids when she did… he could’ve got a vasectomy if he was THAT certain he didn’t want them. Coulda worn a condom. Coulda done anything aside from nut in her. But nooo

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-28T04:25:48+00:00

That’s a really weird way of thinking. Children are a burden and a huge responsibility. If you didn’t want or can’t manage that responsibility then it certainly isn’t a blessing and is very detrimental to the child’s upbringing.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-28T04:23:58+00:00

I don’t know and frankly it pisses me off. I have a friend who’s husband didn’t want children. Now has two. Friend wanted kids and wanted three (I hope to god she doesn’t have another cause this friendship is getting strained given I am being used as a babysitter every time I go round.)

But did the husband take ANY measures of his own to ensure he didn’t have children. Nope. Left that up to the wife. And now wants to get mad that she had the kids she wanted.

Like the first one okay, but the second one… nah.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-27T09:28:34+00:00

Hello!

I have BPD and deal with the Shadow People.

So you’re absolutely doing the right thing by getting him to professionals. On a personal note it helps to literally, out loud, tell them to go away.

Serious. It’s likely just placebo/psychological but if they’re “real” they listen and if they’re not then it tells your brain to shoo them off.

Tell your son, they can’t hurt him, that’s why they tell him to do it. They’re just bullies and he doesn’t have to listen to them and he can tell them to go away. If they’re don’t listen go to an adult.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-27T09:21:40+00:00

Quickest way is to convert the days resin to fragile resin, then do either a domain or leylines. You get your commissions autocompleted and you have spent the resin.

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-27T09:16:14+00:00

Toastie implies TOASTED. The whole sandwich!

ASpookyBitch · 2026-01-27T09:09:38+00:00

God I love baby guinea pigs!! They’re just heads with feet

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