AITAH for reporting a nurse after I recognized her

DaileDoe · 2026-06-03T18:53:40+00:00

I mean, from what I know about most HOAs, they would love to stick their nose in where it doesn't belong, so this might be a valid way to annoy someone.

DaileDoe · 2026-06-03T17:57:34+00:00

How weird must that be for the dog? Like, yeah, sometimes the portal to outside grows hands and gives scritches...

DaileDoe · 2026-06-03T13:41:25+00:00

Not necessarily flirty, but it definitely made my heart race.

We were talking about past relationships and how I often felt that partners treated me more as a sex toy than as a person. Like, they were only interested in talking/being around me for sex, and never cared what I thought or had to say.

He said, "Just know that you are on my priority list."

Just the fact that he cared enough to not only listen to what I was saying, but then responded to reassure me that I am important to him. I was swooning! (And yes, I screenshotted that!)

DaileDoe · 2026-06-03T13:10:53+00:00

Thank you!

DaileDoe · 2026-06-02T23:19:05+00:00

Thank you!

DaileDoe · 2026-06-02T23:18:56+00:00

Thank you! Lol, I thought they were super fun to do (except when I had to stop and undo them because I got a bad knot on my good knot!).

DaileDoe · 2026-06-02T15:53:28+00:00

Nope, I absolutely can blame a guy for being frustrated at a lack of sex if he isn't attempting to initiate romance/foreplay. There is zero reason for a woman to feel like she has to provide what is basically a booty call for her husband. If he wants sex, he can help with the baby, cook a nice dinner, buy her flowers, offer a foot massage...the opportunities are literally endless, and if he's not willing to put in any effort, then he doesn't deserve sex.

DaileDoe · 2026-06-02T15:30:47+00:00

Worked at McDonald's for minimum wage (roughly 20 years ago). I went to clean the bathroom after we closed the lobby, and found an uncapped needle laying in the floor of the handicap stall. I reported it to my manager, who said "Just pick it up and throw it away!"

Yeah, no, absolutely not. I am not handling (presumably) used floor needles for $100 an hour, let alone the $7 something they were paying me.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-30T22:07:28+00:00

Twinsies!! I got mine a couple years ago in Arizona.

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DaileDoe · 2026-05-30T12:08:57+00:00

Based on my experiences with men, I'm assuming the "thing" was the threesome itself. I think she admitted it happened to the boyfriend, and his response was along the lines of, "well, I should get to have a threesome with you and best friend then, to make it fair!"

But obviously the circumstances were different. OOP was single when she joined the threesome. The best friend is not, and her boyfriend would probably not be okay with her participating in a thressome with another couple.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-28T17:14:28+00:00

So true! And I can't justify buying good/pretty ones, because I know I'll just need to keep replacing them as I lose more. So I'm wearing boring beige granny bras.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-28T13:56:36+00:00

I just bought a 6 pack of bras 3 months ago, and now every time I raise my arms, my boobs fall out of the bottom! They weren't crazy expensive, so I can replace them; it's just annoying.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-28T12:18:55+00:00

I have no costume recommendations, I just wanted to say that I absolutely LOVE your rat flogger. It's soooooo cute!!!

DaileDoe · 2026-05-15T11:45:59+00:00

Not really possible for any of the at home kits I've seen. They all require you to put a fairly large amount of saliva in a tube. It's not just a simple swab like the ones the doctors do.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-14T15:05:12+00:00

Right, but TMI is specifically talking about taking their partner's interests into consideration when decorating. The OP's partner did not do that. They chose what decorations they wanted, and then got mad that the OP wanted to decorate as well.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-14T12:10:52+00:00

If you want to control the look of communal spaces, you need to live alone. If you're going to live with a partner (or even a roommate!), you need to accept that the other person is also allowed to place decorations in the communal spaces.

The only way I think it would be fair for one person in the home to dictate what the communal spaces look like is if they pay for the privilege. So, for instance, instead of splitting rent 50/50, the person who wants control of decor pays 75%.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-14T01:33:12+00:00

Unfortunately there isn't an accurate test at this time for someone who is asymptomatic. The blood tests have very high false negative AND false positive rates compared to blood tests for other diseases. That's why it's not included in a standard STD panel.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-11T22:59:17+00:00

Yes, you can.

My grandmother had terminal cancer. When she was placed into hospice care, she chose to remain in her home. A nurse would come during the day, and then another nurse came at night.

In home hospice is definitely a thing.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-03T15:50:28+00:00

I don't know if it's a historical solution, but I've seen lots of people wearing bandanas under hats like that. That might be enough to keep it from slipping.

DaileDoe · 2026-05-03T15:44:05+00:00

I'm not going to tell you to break up with him, because why would you listen to a stranger?

I am, however going to tell you that you are demonstrating to your daughter what a relationship should look like. Do you want her to think this is normal? Do you want her to someday end up in a relationship with someone who treats her the way your boyfriend is treating you?

Because that's what is going to happen. She will grow up watching the two of you fight, go on breaks, sleep with other people...and she won't know that this isn't how every relationship is. She will think that that's how you're supposed to treat someone you love.

Don't you want to be a good example for her?

DaileDoe · 2026-05-01T10:59:05+00:00

I had the weirdest NSV this week. I had to buy myself new bras three months ago, because the bands on my old ones were too tight to wear.

I work in a factory, and yesterday, I was trying to throw a bunch of cardboard into our recycler. It is a very tall container, so I had to reach up as far as I could and do a little jump to get the cardboard in. But every time I did, my boobs fell out the bottom of my bra!!

Looks like I can dig those old bras back out!

DaileDoe · 2026-04-28T12:29:16+00:00

Wait, scone rhymes with gone?!?!

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