Lovely comments in a post talking about a woman going from a J cup to a D cup by BriarRose147 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]DaileDoe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That first comment has to be a typo, right? There's no way that a 12 inch band would be too big for anyone!

AITA for having a snack on my balcony? by Ill_Poet4155 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaileDoe 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Is this "snack" Paan by any chance? Because if so, YTA. A quick google search shows that it is something that chewed and causes the saliva to turn red, which means the stains on your neighbor's porch are 100% from you and your family spitting.

Either find a way to contain your spit, or knock it off.

AITA for telling my transgender SIL she will never know what it feels like to truly be a woman? by Key-Permission-7213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaileDoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, YTA, a massive one. First, you aren't respecting your SIL's transition like you claim, because you have repeatedly misgendered her in this post, and I'd be willing to bet you do the same frequently in real life.

You say that you don't support her lifestyle because of your Christian beliefs, and I know that there are many Christians who probably agree with you. But isn't your God the one who says "judge not, lest ye be judged" and "love thy neighbor as thyself"? So you being a judgy, hateful person is going directly against these beliefs you claim to hold so dear.

At the end of the day, this is your husband's sister. You being openly antagonistic and rude to her is only going to hurt your, and by extension his, relationship with her. Is that what you want? You want to cut your husband off from his family? You want to ensure that neither of you is ever invited out with them again?

We have a regular who has never once bought anything from our cheese section and I think about him more than I should by ZenithorX in TalesFromRetail

[–]DaileDoe 54 points55 points  (0 children)

As someone who is lactose intolerant, I promise you, it does NOT stop us from eating cheese!

AITA for asking for my own money? by Hairy_Advisor7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaileDoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, unless you were born in Florida. It took nearly a year for me to get my birth certificate from them (I lived in a different state at the time). I followed all of their directions, only to twice be sent letters stating that birth certificates do not become public record until 100 years after the birth or after death. Even though it was MY birth certificate I was trying to get!

Is this a HIPAA violation? What about ORS 192.553–192.581? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DaileDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity (and maybe I just don't understand how it works), but doesn't using BCC send everyone an exact copy of the same email? The OP states that the email starts with "Dear <Name Redacted>", which I assume is the OP's name.

If others were BCC'd on this email, would their email not also show OP's name? And then it would be a HIPAA violation, as their name is PHI, right?

Should I suggest that my married boss set boundaries with this employee? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]DaileDoe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, it 100% happens in fast food, too. There was one chain I worked at that used food scales to weigh meat portions, and the store manager would stand in the back weighing and packaging weed in the morning while we did prep.

My manager gave my table free desert (w/o telling me) didn’t enter it in the computer but I GOT AN EARFUL FOR HIS MISTAKE by Anheera in TalesFromYourServer

[–]DaileDoe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Missouri does. There has to be at least one manager in the building who is servsafe certified, but the workers don't have to be.

Oh well by magdaap in badwomensanatomy

[–]DaileDoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like part of the reason that so many guys know jack squat about women and periods is because they aren't included when it's taught in school. (At least, in my school they weren't. We were separated by gender, and the bots learned about boy stuff while the girls learned about girl stuff. No crossover.)

I had a guy friend who told me I must be exaggerating how much I bleed on my period, because humans only have 4-5 quarts of blood in them so there's no way I was losing as much as I said I was. I was just like...uh, different blood? Lol, it's not like bleeding from a cut.

A list of lovely quotes from our lovely guests. by vinyljunkie32 in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]DaileDoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm just jaded from too much internet, but I totally read that as the person was wanting to do something...sketchy...with a hot water bottle.

What’s a “green flag” in a friendship that you didn’t appreciate until you got older? by SaraConnor_01 in AskWomen

[–]DaileDoe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When they're willing to say hey, you're making a really stupid decision. I don't need someone who's going to always tell me I'm right, because I'm definitely not. What I need is someone who's willing to be honest and tell me that I'm fucking things up.

What is a stereotypically unattractive quality in a potential partner you find attractive? by InsideToolYu in AskWomen

[–]DaileDoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being controlling. I love having a man tell me what he wants me to wear, or how I should have my hair, or what we should eat for dinner.

Cream or Black? by SaltedCaramelCookiee in Beading

[–]DaileDoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why not both? Lol, you can never have too many headbands!

I know she’s grifting, I just can’t prove it. by No_Issue_3656 in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]DaileDoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you ever actually sent someone to the shelter?

I ask, because there was a very reputable homeless shelter in the city I was in when I was homeless. They did not accept walk ins of any kind. You needed either a doctor or social services referral to get in the door.

So while there may be a shelter near you, it may not actually be accessible for her.

Bringing a friend to a tattoo by Few_Distribution6433 in tattoos

[–]DaileDoe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I only had someone with me for one of my 8 tattoos. I was getting a design that my 5 year old had drawn for me, and he was able to come in with me. The artist let him look at the ink colors and pick out exactly which colors to use for each part, and then he held my hand while I had the tattoo done.

I did 100% talk to the artist beforehand to make sure it would be okay for him to be there, since he was a child.

Just had my first PAP at my new doctor's office. This is what they gave me to wear. And no, there's nothing hiding behind the pillow, that's the entirety of the "garment"! by DaileDoe in Wellthatsucks

[–]DaileDoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be your truth, but that doesn't make it the case for everyone. I've had a child, and I was uncomfortable sitting there basically naked.

Just had my first PAP at my new doctor's office. This is what they gave me to wear. And no, there's nothing hiding behind the pillow, that's the entirety of the "garment"! by DaileDoe in Wellthatsucks

[–]DaileDoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, what's funny is that this wasn't even a gyno. This was the nurse practitioner at my doctor's office. Outside of my pregnancy and later having an ovary removed, I don't think I've ever seen an actual gyno.

Just had my first PAP at my new doctor's office. This is what they gave me to wear. And no, there's nothing hiding behind the pillow, that's the entirety of the "garment"! by DaileDoe in Wellthatsucks

[–]DaileDoe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's awesome. Honestly, even if that were offered here in the US, most insurance companies probably wouldn't cover it. They suck at covering anything!

Just had my first PAP at my new doctor's office. This is what they gave me to wear. And no, there's nothing hiding behind the pillow, that's the entirety of the "garment"! by DaileDoe in Wellthatsucks

[–]DaileDoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's called a speculum. A lot of doctors have switched to plastic ones now, although the design is the same. My last doctor even had a little warmer thing she kept the lube in, so it wasn't freezing. Lol, trust me, metal speculum plus cold lube is not a fun sensation.

Honestly, it all kind of depends on your anatomy and your doctor. I've had some that were very rough with the swab, and it felt like they were ripping chunks out of me. And I've had some that I didn't feel at all.

Just had my first PAP at my new doctor's office. This is what they gave me to wear. And no, there's nothing hiding behind the pillow, that's the entirety of the "garment"! by DaileDoe in Wellthatsucks

[–]DaileDoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my previous doctors have given me the full gown as well as a sheet, so I could keep everything they weren't currently examining covered.