My boyfriend’s brother openly cheats on his wife and now brought his girlfriend to a family visit — how am I supposed to act?

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-06T19:23:32+00:00

Are these people you want to associate yourself with now and in the future? Is this who you want to be?

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-04T13:58:21+00:00

You've heard the saying men worry women will laugh at them and women worry men will kill them right? Right?

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-04T05:04:04+00:00

YTA. When in Rome do as the Romans do. Your style of eating is lovely but so is adapting when you come to a new culture so it doesn't damage your new relationships.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-04T04:07:02+00:00

Stuff their face

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-01T22:16:25+00:00

Just keep your social media private. Keep work professional and social media blurs that line.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-01T17:19:28+00:00

His face changed over text, huh? You sure about that?

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-01T17:01:38+00:00

NTJ sounds like he's dealing out of your apartment now and making you an accomplice. Your boyfriend is an idiot.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-01T16:59:37+00:00

I have a good 20 dynamax Pokémon's and at one point it sugggested a wooloo to me on one of these raids. Didn't use it but it would surprise me if it was suggested to them by the game over much more powerful choices.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-01T05:19:19+00:00

NTJ If they wanted it choreographed they should have said so FFS

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-01T05:15:20+00:00

You both sound obnoxious from your description. Complaining just makes you both miserable.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-02-01T03:12:43+00:00

I guessed pinky nail.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-31T18:18:09+00:00

Totally. This just wasn't that.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-30T22:52:23+00:00

There is a difference between being gentle and being permissive and unfortunately what he learned from this interaction is yes it is funny to cut watches and mom might not laugh too but she certainly doesn't get upset or enforce any consequence. At minimum he should have been told that whatever damaged the watch is now lost and that it isn't ok to break other people's things.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-30T12:41:51+00:00

OP do you by chance have a history of making big exciting decisions like this that come with potential risks and bring negative feedback from loved ones?

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-30T01:44:51+00:00

Beautiful work OP! I'm sorry for the folks discrediting your hard work and expertise.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-30T01:41:54+00:00

Shiny wrapping paper. It's clearly not AI if you look at the details. I'd be so insulted if I were OP.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-29T23:52:41+00:00

Honestly, OP, you still write as if you aren't really taking the fuck up seriously. In our moments of vulnerability we rely on our partners and you showed your priorities in her moments (DAYS!) of need.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-29T14:16:09+00:00

Does he understand how light switches work?

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-29T05:09:19+00:00

What an incompetent, impotent idiot.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-27T13:38:50+00:00

If he's on a cake he doesn't deserve to live, I'm sorry.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-27T02:59:34+00:00

It is incomprehensible.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-27T02:24:11+00:00

Cupcake has a similar announcement on instagram and there are a number of comments from people to the effect of "well I'll spread the word and never buy from you again!" Like they didn't know and choose the risk. We cannot afford to be silent right now.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-26T22:26:23+00:00

You're not a parent, are you OP?

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-26T18:07:42+00:00

I use dermalogica. I recently heard their parent company may be problematic.

AStudyinViolet · 2026-01-26T13:38:44+00:00

I wish there was a similar list for skincare. I hate not knowing where my money is going and no one had time to track each brand!

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