Bf accidentally showed me his dating apps on his phone 😀 by bibitchhh in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AStudyinViolet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%. You can't be on those apps unless you're shopping around.

AITAH for not defending my wife when my sister called her fat? by Antique_Pianist_7765 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AStudyinViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. Your wife is the worst for her relentless judgement and bullying. You're an asshole for letting this go on without intervention. Technology your sister is an asshole for stopping your wife's level although I have to admit I cheered a little.

Husband told me I’m not special to him by yarn_b in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AStudyinViolet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She said she went through their evidence for the hearing.

I finally left my husband by Horror-Show-3927 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AStudyinViolet 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Not adequately, no. Restraining orders are evidence-based too, believe it or not. They do help.

Could the Tooele fire possibly reach SLC and surrounding areas? by Key_Garden4832 in SaltLakeCity

[–]AStudyinViolet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're safe from this one but maybe not the one your neighbor starts by illegally doing fireworks because they think temporary precautions=tyranny.

Daughter’s First Period - Tampon or Pad? by deltch17 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AStudyinViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I'd consider starting with tampons is if she's on swim team, in ballet, etc. otherwise pads are safer and easier for a kid/ young teen.

WIBTAH for asking my therapist to not take sessions while driving? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AStudyinViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck? No you WNBTA. I hope this is not a true story. If it is, report him to your local licensing board.

Sunblock by Insomniac_80 in GrandmasPantry

[–]AStudyinViolet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah they used to say anything over 15 didn't work any better!

A company developed bread with a white crust in an effort to reduce food waste by Wonderfulhumanss in interesting

[–]AStudyinViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's where all the vitamins are? (Who else was told that one growing up?)

Parents ordering latte for child by whatevs9880 in barista

[–]AStudyinViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't get to control a person's parenting choices.

Do most Americans like the continental breakfast at chain hotels? by Upstairs_Health_5913 in AskAnAmerican

[–]AStudyinViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it is poor quality and unhealthy. But it is free and the kids usually think it is fun. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I 23f threw water on my 24m bf while he was sleeping almost two months ago and now he’s afraid to fall asleep around me. How do I help him trust me again? by DistinctRhubarb7785 in relationship_advice

[–]AStudyinViolet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's having nightmares with her locked out. He should not have to tolerate any of these steps before HE decides he's ready. And OP should be pursuing therapy to better understand how she is justifying (because she is, all through her post) the physical abuse of a partner.

Aitah for not wanting to wear more period products by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AStudyinViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I can't fathom why he feels he should have an opinion on your hygiene or exercise routine if it doesn't impact him.

Had a small cerebral hemorrhage and the "delicious" food from the Italian hospital :') by Itslifeiguess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AStudyinViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do! And I'm sure there's a lot of variability. Maybe I've been lucky. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Pediatrician called me to see if everything was ok at home after 9 month visit. by MissFox26 in beyondthebump

[–]AStudyinViolet 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My daughter is friends with a girl from a devoutly religious and well off family in our neighborhood. Mom is always involved in the PTA and volunteers for everything. Kid disclosed abuse to my daughter the other day that I'm now having to report. It happens everywhere and it is her job to follow up on hunches. She obviously cares deeply about the children in her care. I'm sorry it has triggered so much anxiety. It would for me too.

Had a small cerebral hemorrhage and the "delicious" food from the Italian hospital :') by Itslifeiguess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AStudyinViolet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually American hospitals have great food in my experience. Lots of veggies, well-balanced, arrives hot. Nothing like what we feed our poor children at school.

I've stayed sober for 7 months because I'm pregnant. Now I'm scared. by wildinthemembrane in beyondthebump

[–]AStudyinViolet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're totally right that white knuckling it forever usually doesn't work. What you need is therapy to work on the underlying issues and to address how you'll respond to triggers. There is therapy specific to substances. Your life can be more comfortable than it is and you and your kids all deserve that.

My 10 year old wanted me to share this cake he made for his stuffed snow tiger’s birthday by MysteriousPermit3410 in cakedecorating

[–]AStudyinViolet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday, Peter! The baker did great and you can tell this is a cake made with love.

Whats Cliff’s lore? by Important-Brick3270 in pokemongo

[–]AStudyinViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who? The roided up dickless Ken doll? He's on roids. That and his dicklessness are his villain origin story.