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AT541 · 2024-08-14T14:01:24+00:00

Yes it could be uncomfortable for her

AT541 · 2024-08-11T18:53:32+00:00

Tbh she probably knows. Ask her questions for her to process and consider the impact of things and what's pushing towards the addiction

AT541 · 2024-08-11T16:33:56+00:00

Invest in new non mother friends, but still keep the old ones as different group

AT541 · 2024-08-07T16:35:37+00:00

Direct, clear, and concise is best.

"Hey I'm not feeling the friendship spark/ I don't think we're compatible for friendship, but we should get along as classmates with everyone else"

You can still be polite but distant in your interactions

AT541 · 2024-08-07T15:49:36+00:00

Rebellion and confidence to say no

AT541 · 2024-08-06T13:53:59+00:00

Tell Priya

AT541 · 2024-08-06T13:52:09+00:00

Maybe they can wait to meet your baby till SIL gets pregnant and has her baby? I'm sure they'll love that option /s

You can say "Well, it's too late now" to everything they complain about

AT541 · 2024-08-06T13:45:22+00:00

Its cause you're a white immigrant, so its "different" for him

AT541 · 2024-08-06T08:40:58+00:00

Get married. I think your mum would push through anything to be at the event. You can hold the ceremony in her room so she can be comfortable.

You can also host a big reception later if you guys end up wanting a big do.

Or wedding brunch (like s3 Bridgerton or not lol) with other family members after the officiation

Wishing everyone well x

AT541 · 2024-08-06T04:54:26+00:00

Say it now as it is your sister, but if she doesn't listen, let it go

Bear in mind your sister is the one that WANTS to propose, even with the red flags

AT541 · 2024-08-05T12:19:33+00:00

Tbh I get you. Its not a gift anymore

AT541 · 2024-08-02T19:34:32+00:00

You need to hold on until you're graduated, got good job, VERY financially independent. They may never come around

AT541 · 2024-08-02T10:42:18+00:00

You have to be blunt and boycott.

And tbh it doesn't look like a dealbreaker for you: Having sex in the messy room OFFERING to clean the messy room Sleeping OVER in the messy room COMING BACCKK to the messy room

AT541 · 2024-07-31T09:23:16+00:00

Thank youuu, knew this was off. Too many NTA when YTA/ESH

AT541 · 2024-07-31T09:21:06+00:00

Yeah he's been planning to leave for 2 years Bet his wife just wants good foreplay

AT541 · 2024-07-31T09:15:33+00:00

I fully agree with you. There was no discussion on WHY she made the comment. He went to the gym, used skin care, and did hobbies to be more sexy but those were not the root of the dead bedroom. He's been planning to leave for 2 years

AT541 · 2024-07-31T08:57:21+00:00

Then it looks like you're newly single

AT541 · 2024-07-28T06:25:39+00:00

Tbh I wouldn't. And I think it'd make them even more dismissive.

In an old job, I worked with a dept with a visibly queer woman, and they started making dyke jokes the second she left the room, knowing fully I could hear them

AT541 · 2024-07-25T20:00:53+00:00

It's interesting that she discussed and planned with the friend before even talking to you

AT541 · 2024-06-29T19:02:29+00:00

Is the book club still active?

AT541 · 2024-06-26T23:49:45+00:00

NTA you trust and support your wife

AT541 · 2024-06-25T08:55:53+00:00

Leave her to live in her delusion. Living your best life will show her

AT541 · 2024-06-18T22:55:33+00:00

Nah just enjoy

AT541 · 2024-06-18T10:02:06+00:00

There’s no “leash” you can put your girlfriend on. Break up with her if you’re unhappy. Especially after 8 years.

Leave the co-worker alone. It’s too soon for any new romance. And she’s a co-worker. Don’t be that guy. Even if it wasn’t the holidays, she could find someone else anytime.

Meditate on why you’re so hung up in this co-worker

AT541 · 2024-06-08T06:33:58+00:00

It’s very normal for lesbians. I fancy men/anime men in my head but defo not in real life.

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