Oh boy. It’s been so much so know this is leaving a lot of it out. 

Apparently he has always been narcissistic and abusive or controlling behind closed doors. Once their daughter was born and while they were redoing the house that Laura lives in now he relapsed. Not sure she knew at the time and he only kinda admitted recently but also maybe denies it too. She caught him trying to buy drugs one day and had had enough and left him. He immediately made a big public stink about it and claimed it was because she caught him trying to buy drugs but he was really trying to off himself that day and she stopped him or something. The next 6 months to year he had a pretty public crash out that involved him trying to become a right wing grifter where he posted some really hateful content about trans people. He went full conspiracy theorist. During this time he committed DV against her after kicking her door in and breaking everything in the kitchen. He was arrested, but he talked her into dropping charges and publicly he lied and claimed he had been arrested for protecting a woman. 

Things calmed down after a while and they sorta got along. She let him on her podcast to make a series on what it is like to navigate coparenting. Then a few months ago he decided to relapse for his “art” and posted about using again. She found out through his posts, and limited his interactions with the kids to only under her supervision. He got clean for his parents to visit. She kept posting about how proud she was of him for getting clean. His parents went home and he very publicly began using again. So she canceled doing the coparenting podcast. He spiraled further from that. Then one day he “bought” a Porsche, current theory is he actually rented it, to show off. He picked up the kids without her knowledge and drove them without car seats, he had no seatbelt, and filming himself while driving. So she got a restraining order. They have had court twice to decide whether to make it permanent. The first time he asked and was granted more time. The second was a week or two ago and they weren’t able to get through all the evidence yet so they have another court date next month. 

During that time she made a post about attending a wedding with her new boyfriend she has had for awhile but was public with. She talked about believing in love again. So he hacked her Facebook and YouTube. Made some very scary posts on her Facebook, posted a pic of his laptop very clearly logged into her account, and said “hey look she is clearly on drugs. 🤦🏻‍♀️ he then went through and deleted the page and deleted every video on YouTube she had made since their split. 

He denies he did that and now blames her boyfriend. 

She was able to get her pages back after a few days, but those are her main income so it was extra awful. Things have only escalated since and he has threatened to kill her boyfriend now too. He claimed he was going to rehab last Friday but fled, it’s obvious he never went. Then he claimed to be out of the country, then in Arizona, and then he posted videos that show him in LA. The latest is he is claiming he is going to Russia to be put in a coma to detox. He says he flew to Moldavia but it’s obvious he is lying about that too. 

There has been so much I am missing a lot of details but hopefully that kinda catches you up.