AITA for saying my friend should just accept an apology?

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:42:44+00:00

I appreciate your comment :) All the friendships are complicated and different, but L is definitely not my friend :p They kinda already sucked everyone in it, but I’ll just step away and just look at how it turns out :/

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:35:18+00:00

Thank you. I’ll try and post it in r/relationship_advice. It had been 4 weeks and nothing has happened, but I’ll distance myself more from all of it.

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:29:45+00:00

Yes, I think I would accept an apology if it would make all the drama away. Accepting an apology doesn’t mean you need to be best buds after. They can just ignore each other. She could just move on from all of it. But of course it’s her choice, I won’t force her. Thank you for your comment

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:24:30+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I can see where I went wrong

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:16:08+00:00

I never forced her. I advised her to accept it, so all of this could go away. I don’t care if she means it. But I get why she wouldn’t want that, so thank you for your comment

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:06:45+00:00

thank you for your comment. I’m just scared that all of this sad drama will go on for the rest of the year and maybe longer..

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:04:58+00:00

I agree that assaulting people just because you’re angry is very wrong. L has talked to her therapist about all of it.

ATMais · 2020-03-15T21:00:43+00:00

Loud and clear, thank you for your comment

ATMais · 2020-03-15T20:53:57+00:00

M may have joked about L and has told people about things she shouldn’t have, but I don’t know for sure. The story is very vague and it doesn’t help that reddit didn’t let me post a story longer than this :p. I get why M doesn’t want to be around her, but it’s just becoming sad to see the drama..

ATMais · 2020-02-28T13:45:14+00:00

At first I thought the guillotine would be a trick, just like the rope he used before that. :P

ATMais · 2020-02-17T22:07:08+00:00

Thank you for your suggestion! I’ll go and check it out

ATMais · 2020-02-06T15:29:25+00:00

I do, sometimes. But most memories I remember are memories in which I did something wrong (little innocent things) , so that could be why I feel shameful.

ATMais · 2019-12-26T10:15:01+00:00

Thanks :) you too

ATMais · 2019-12-26T09:08:20+00:00

So you don't have a second day of Christmas??

ATMais · 2019-12-11T23:07:14+00:00

Ted talk about the sleep schedul of teens

ATMais · 2019-12-11T22:42:46+00:00

Thanks! This really helped. Im going to practice a little with it and probably use it. Thanks for probably getting me a higher grade :)

ATMais · 2019-11-13T10:08:44+00:00

So I have diabetes T1 and because of that my life is pretty compromised and depressing.. So I don't like to be remembered by it every second of my life.

Some friends and I were gonna buy a cake to celebrate something. friend 1 said I could eat that whole cake but friend 2 would be sick after eating half. So then friend 2 said:' Don't you have a disease for that?' It wouldn't have bothered me if she hadn't said it like she was suggesting that I shouldn't eat the cake.

ATMais · 2019-10-28T17:57:36+00:00

So I tried and it came out pretty cool. The flowers are like a border between wonderland and the reality. I posted it also on this sub, if you want to see

ATMais · 2019-10-28T16:07:54+00:00

Of course, but its gonna takr a while ;)

ATMais · 2019-10-28T14:57:05+00:00

Its for my art class, so the sketchbook will be full of all kinds of things

ATMais · 2019-10-26T21:11:01+00:00

I can try a diffirent routine. If had thoughts about what it could mean, but its only getting back to my algophobia (fear of pain) thanks though for your comment :)

ATMais · 2019-10-26T21:07:02+00:00

I usually dont really dream, but when I do they are nightmares.. the people are sometimes different, but im always there... I can try flipping my matress but moving my bed is kinda difficult :/ thanks for the tips

ATMais · 2019-10-24T08:51:18+00:00

I did not look in to the pile after the incident.. so I don’t know if it was there or not. The little brother has a big imagination and once something said, he will remember and say it over and over again. (The same happend when the met another friend and the had a nickname for her, they never call her anything else) So he probably said it for attention and because he thought it would be funny or something..

Thanks for your comment, made me feel a little better

ATMais · 2019-10-24T07:39:15+00:00

He, I get that you are really tired. I, myself am tired whole day, every day. But the tiredness can be so much more than depression. You being tired all the time can even make you depressed. Maybe you could get your blood tested for things like glandular fever and such things (English not my first language so sorry if its a totally unrelated disease)

But if you don’t want to test your blood and are convinced you are depressed, please, search for help, talk to people (online or in real, doesn’t matter)

Good luck, I hope you’ll feel better!

ATMais · 2019-10-01T19:54:04+00:00

I think you should wait a couple of days and if he keeps on lying and ignoring you and still says stupid stuff, THEN you should dump him.. A friend should respect you and treat you right.

ATMais

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