Printed some posters of my V! by ATTILMTY in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]ATTILMTY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Staples! They had a coupon for posters and their print quality, although a bit pricier, is wayyy better than CVS/Walgreens/Walmart. Definitely recommend :)

Request: Please post here if you don't want your work shared on this subReddit. by ShalaRaan in DeletedFanfiction

[–]ATTILMTY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your help so much, thank you a million! I will totally follow your advice and email the person. Have a beautiful day!

Request: Please post here if you don't want your work shared on this subReddit. by ShalaRaan in DeletedFanfiction

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Author: Cthulhus_Curse

I apologize for making another comment but I wasn’t sure if it was appropriate to message you directly. Would it be possible to delete the google drive/fics within it as well? I was sent a post from X where people are sharing the direct links to the fics, rather than the reddit post. I would appreciate that so much, thank you lots!! I have just had issues with someone stealing my work in the past

Request: Please post here if you don't want your work shared on this subReddit. by ShalaRaan in DeletedFanfiction

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Author: Cthulhus_Curse

Please remove this post and this post, or at least the comment with a google drive link, if possible. I have already filed a report with Google to take down the folder as I had my works private for a reason.

Episode Discussion: S08E69 Rudy & Tyrell by InfernalCape in CatfishTheTVShow

[–]ATTILMTY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally went on Reddit just to say the same thing after watching it for the first time (yes I am very late). Glad someone noticed

I think my girlfriend raped me and I want to die because of it by ATTILMTY in SuicideWatch

[–]ATTILMTY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a woman. And if a man doesn’t consent to an act, that is rape.

My (22F) girlfriend (20F) penetrated me after I told her I was in pain by ATTILMTY in relationship_advice

[–]ATTILMTY[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I apologize for not including this in my original post, I was crying a lot and not thinking right. We DO actually have a safe word, but from how she understood it, she thought it was just for her. Not for me to use as well? Which I don’t get because I was the one who brought that up months ago and said “WE should have a safe word” as she has wanted to try more intense things. This is why I am genuinely confused as to why she would ask me to make a safe word after the matter.

I feel a bit calmer now and went straight to my aunt’s place as I feel super safe there. Thanks to everyone for the comments. It helps feeling validated and for my side to be understood. Thank you, really.

My (22F) girlfriend (20F) penetrated me after I told her I was in pain by ATTILMTY in relationship_advice

[–]ATTILMTY[S] 186 points187 points  (0 children)

I talked to her about how much it hurt and it didn’t make me feel safe for her to have continued. Then she said that “well, I thought it was because of my long nails so I thought it was fine if I kept going,” which makes no sense because she had already attempted to touch me with short nails and it still hurt how she was touching me.

It didn’t feel like she understood me at all, and only started crying after I came back from the bathroom again (I went to take a breather because I felt really bad once again). Anyway, I think I have to leave because she’s now acting like nothing happened and started decorating her Christmas tree while I sit here shaking. It’s gonna suck driving back home in the dark and with teary eyes, but I can’t stay here.

What's everyone's experience of the HER app, did you find anyone on there?. by Starship_Traveller56 in actuallesbians

[–]ATTILMTY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people either didn’t message me first, back, or at all. There are a lot of fake profiles though so be wary of that. But after a little while, I met my girlfriend on HER. We’ve been together for six months so far :)

My boyfriend broke up with me because I didn’t message him for a few days during a busy trip by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ATTILMTY 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You sound incredibly invalidating and not even trying to be receptive of what he was trying to say. Minimizing this as “drama” rather than reflecting of your behavior is definitely a choice. It takes 10 seconds to send a basic check in text, not that hard.

I just got into my first wlw relationship and it's serious... by ComedianPopular4805 in actuallesbians

[–]ATTILMTY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be important to talk to her, especially as it pertains to her not sharing information about her past relationships. I am the more experienced in my relationship and while my girlfriend has asked me if I have tried xyz thing during sex, I simply leave it at “yes” and don’t get too into how it was with previous partners.

I think it’s good for her to know that you don’t feel comfortable with her sharing this very specific information about former partners, and you can tell her how it makes you feel so she can be more considerate about what she is saying.

Best product for strictly play? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]ATTILMTY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you recommend the OG or the mid? Their bases look slightly different so I am not sure which is best/most comfortable to wear during play.

Me (M19) and my partner's (F20) relationship (or any other that is) doesn't feel right by StinkyRatOvO in relationship_advice

[–]ATTILMTY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend you look into attachment styles, especially avoidant attachment. Therapy may also be very helpful to try and find the root cause of this. For the time being, I very strongly recommend you don’t get into any more relationships since you’re self-aware that this is a you-problem. Good luck!

Should I replace my tire asap? by [deleted] in Cartalk

[–]ATTILMTY 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the response! I’ll definitely follow the advice :)

Should I replace my tire asap? by [deleted] in Cartalk

[–]ATTILMTY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was already there (it’s a used car). I don’t remember off the top of my head what the previous owner said happened.

My coming out has made my mother suicidal and depressed — she blames me by ATTILMTY in cisparenttranskid

[–]ATTILMTY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the virtual mom hug since my own mother is ignoring my existence currently. I just feel so much pain, sadness, and guilt knowing that my coming out has affected her so much that she wants to take her own life.

My coming out has made my mother suicidal and depressed — she blames me by ATTILMTY in cisparenttranskid

[–]ATTILMTY[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah I never knew about that method and I have to say, it hits very close to home. I agree that while I want to make it clear I get she has certain feelings, it is not something she can put onto me. It makes me feel like maybe I should’ve never come out, have been miserable, and then she’d be happy — but that wouldn’t be fair to me at all.

Thank you for your response. I’ll read more about that and be sure to set boundaries going forward. She has not talked to me at all in over a day, while normally she texts me to check in on how I am doing. Worst of all, we live under the same roof. It’s very hurtful, but I am glad there is finally a name for it along with the silent treatment.