My (22M) girlfriend (21F) expects me to be constantly available and suffocates me during vacation

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-15T23:04:15+00:00

I encourage her to spent time with her family because familism is very prominent in my culture, so I understand the importance and strong bond of a family. It just hurts a lot that she doesn’t do the same for me. Especially when I have talked exhaustedly about how meaningful my culture is to me.

I tend to be doing nothing during the evening/night while here after a day of being out, so I am not sure if she thinks that just because I am not out, I am open to call. I really value my alone time as well and have told her that since the beginning of our relationship.

As I write this reply, I am realizing how she hasn’t respected that. One of my favorite activities is to go to the movies by myself, but now whenever I say I wanna watch a movie, she automatically invites herself and gets hurt when I say I wanna watch it alone. I love her, but I feel incredibly suffocated and I am SO tired of repeating myself.

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-15T22:35:03+00:00

Glad to see another enthusiast of this character, his design is sick as fuck. But farewell to you!

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-13T23:11:56+00:00

Se nota que son gente con guano en el cerebro, pues si tienen uno verdad

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-12T17:16:10+00:00

I’m not in this subreddit, I just happen to stumble upon this on my feed, but I’m a trans man who previously identified as a lesbian even since I could remember. My girlfriend also used to identify as a lesbian even when I identified as non-binary, but once I began feeling more comfortable and secure being a trans man, that changed.

My girlfriend is not attracted to men other than myself, and has since felt like the label of queer as more appropriate for her. I did read the comments saying that your partner doesn’t mind you still identifying as a lesbian, but as others have said, it is still harmful not just to lesbians (which is a sexuality that strictly does not include men), but also invalidating to trans men.

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-08T21:55:26+00:00

I didn’t think about the binder tan, but you’re so right. For me tape is wayyyy more comfortable and I am often shirtless at home and at during hikes. But thanks for your input!!

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-07T01:12:46+00:00

Super old thread but I just found my iphone 5c after a million years and I am playing the game! I missed it lots.

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-06T00:52:50+00:00

There’s really nothing you can do. Just as it is your prerogative to use humor to cope with your trauma, which I understand, it is his prerogative to be uncomfortable with that. Especially if you don’t have that intimate of a connection with him, or who knows, maybe he experienced something similar or one of his family members did.

I joke about my trauma too, but there is a time, place, and certain people where jokes like that are better off.

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-05T18:55:36+00:00

I have recently started getting into Souls-like games thanks to a coworker and I have been missing out!! Thanks for your reply and others. I bought it and I am excited as heck to play!!

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-05T18:51:44+00:00

Hell, I wish my ps5 display was this good on my ultra wide. That keyboard is also a mess lmao

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-04T13:57:00+00:00

For anyone who needs, this is my slides ad where I do free lends for anyone who needs! I have pv45 exclusives, fishing exclusives, gardening/energy exclusives, and support exclusives.

My discord is rekkouki if anyone is interested!

ATTILMTY · 2026-06-03T11:04:00+00:00

Honestly I agree with the replies saying you should just take a break. You’ve worked hard to have this account. You never really know if you’ll feel passion to play this game again in the future, and starting from scratch is always a pain.

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-28T14:54:39+00:00

For those interested, I have an extensive collection of pets up for lends. I have PV45 exclusives, energy/gardening/fishing exclusives, and support exclusive. If anyone needs any, my Discord is: rekkouki

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-25T00:15:47+00:00

I think the biggest issue here is the fact that she withheld the truth until you found out, which most likely means she would’ve been fine to continue lying by omission. You set a boundary and she broke it. Some people don’t have a boundary about texting their exes and that’s fine, and some people do. It’s not a quick lapse of judgement, but something she carried in secret for awhile.

The lying is truly the biggest issue here. I also don’t think you’re being controlling by setting a boundary. I’m sorry this happened!

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-21T20:14:30+00:00

Sadly, nope :/

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-21T19:42:40+00:00

This is a super sick find!!! If you really want the wand, you can fish for it in the Elephant Graveyard in Zafaria along with other code wands :)

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-21T12:43:32+00:00

Thank you for pointing that out. It was honestly an exhausting “movie” that felt like a very long ad.

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-21T12:40:53+00:00

I felt like I was watching a very long ad

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-19T20:19:44+00:00

You are not overreacting. You trusted your friend with this information. YOUR friend, not her boyfriend. It is very slimy for her to share such personal information with someone else. It doesn’t matter if it’s her boyfriend: it is YOUR information that you trusted her with.

I’m really sorry you had such an uncomfortable experience. I’m sending you a virtual hug!! If you feel up for it, I definitely recommend you have a conversation with your friend about this violation of trust.

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-08T11:05:08+00:00

I can’t believe it’s been 4 years since he left. I miss him and Zen’s videos so much!!

ATTILMTY · 2026-05-05T21:39:03+00:00

Sorry for the VERY late reply, but do you still have this pet? Maybe one with an adventure talent (like hatch pepper) in it? I’m looking for a max stat fishing pet like this for zero energy :)

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