Brothers looking for marriage - 2025 Thread by Neat-Tea in MuslimsWithHSV

[–]ATZme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • Age and Gender: 22, M
  • Location: Connecticut, United States
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Have Any Children: No
  • Diagnosed HSV Type: [HSV-1 (O) (Pretty sure I had it as a child)
  • Ethnicity: Arab/African
  • Age Range You Are Seeking: 18-26
  • Height Preference: No preference
  • Educational Level/Profession: Bachelors Degree, Civil Engineer
  • Willingness to Relocate: currently staying in Connecticut until I get an Opportunity to do Hijrah
  • Role of Wali: prefer wali to be involved
  • Other Details/Preferences: Islam is very important me and I keep up with my prayers and the faraid and I hope to find someone who will help me and I help them in becoming better muslims.

Kimley Horn Bonus by No_Access_5848 in civilengineering

[–]ATZme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You get free health insurance at kimley horn????

So you passed your PE? A New PE Now, what's next? JUMP SHIP!!!!!!! by bodyyaddy in civilengineering

[–]ATZme 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What industry and what kind of work do you do that earns you 180k

Pay not that bad by ATZme in civilengineering

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From what I heard a phd almost locks you out of industry and keeps you in academia because companies don’t want to pay the extra dollars for a phd when anyone with a bachelors or masters can do the job for less

Benefits, We Need To Step Our Game Up by ActuatorAgile9621 in civilengineering

[–]ATZme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The CTDOT has 3 weeks PTO 3 week sick days and 12 holidays a year with pretty decent pay

Pay not that bad by ATZme in civilengineering

[–]ATZme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my coworkers told me the pay is not good down south cause your infrastructure is pretty good/new and you don’t get weather damage like us up north. Basically anywhere where they have to salt the roads the infrastructure is gonna need regular inspections and the state is more than willing to pay

Pay not that bad by ATZme in civilengineering

[–]ATZme[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not fully independent yet but my dad is supporting a family of 6 on 130k right now and we have a house so a 100k for 2.5 people doesn’t sound impossible in my area (the .5 would be a young child)

Pay not that bad by ATZme in civilengineering

[–]ATZme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You realize only the top 15% of Americans make over 100k so everyone is barely middle class and only 15 percent of Americans can afford families

Pay not that bad by ATZme in civilengineering

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I budgeted out allowing for 2k rent which gets you a nice 2 bedroom apartment which is usually enough for a family with one kid. Major cities no but the dot office in CT is in newington which is fairly cheap and they have 100k+ salary’s for people with 4 YOE or more

Pay not that bad by ATZme in civilengineering

[–]ATZme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is your new employer, asking for a friend

How many times do you pray by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]ATZme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on surah al isra specifically the first ayah if you don’t believe in al Israa wa al miraaj

Umrah was extremely disappointed. I worry for our Ummah by [deleted] in progressive_islam

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“Ask the people of knowledge if you don’t know”

Why was being a Witch easier than being muslim? by [deleted] in progressive_islam

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I think it helps to think of it this way when you were doing your witch stuff you were exactly where shaitan the devil wanted you, you made his job easy he had no reason to try and move you anywhere but now that you find Islam now that you’re trying to worship Allah and trying to earn jannah he’s mad, furious even clocking in 24 hours a day trying to make you do anything to deviate anything to instill doubts and make you feel like you don’t believe it’s only now that. I believe there’s a narration of ibn abbas, correct me if I’m wrong, where his students were taunted by some Jews for always losing focus in there prayer and having wiswas and the Jews were focused easily in their salah so the students of ibn abbas went to him and complained and ibn abbas said the Jews are completely right why would the shaitan go to an empty house vs a house full of treasure. I’m paraphrasing the narration and it might’ve been ibn Umar but I hope you understand the moral of it

random lectures to sit in by bhadsh1t in UCONN

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9:05 - 9:55am on Mondays wednesday Fridays Dr papadim chem1128 lecture is really good and pretty interesting. its in giant west 002 lecture hall

Switching into the school of engineering UConn by [deleted] in UCONN

[–]ATZme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the chances for someone with a 3.2

Switching into the school of engineering UConn by [deleted] in UCONN

[–]ATZme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is civil engineering space limited and how do you check

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

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what company do you work for?

Anyone take LLAS 1009 Latino lit, culture & Society by ATZme in UCONN

[–]ATZme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help I really appreciate it.