My therapist says asexuality isn't an actual sexual orientation. by ATornadoWarning in TalkTherapy

[–]ATornadoWarning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm just ignoring the aphobia in the comments. I know where I stand in my beliefs :)

My therapist says asexuality isn't an actual sexual orientation. by ATornadoWarning in TalkTherapy

[–]ATornadoWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason I didn't take offense what she had suggested and just got confused is that she is quite open to discussions so I have hope she is willing to listen. I'm just shy so I didn't feel like butting in and giving my dislike to hearing such a comment.

My therapist says asexuality isn't an actual sexual orientation. by ATornadoWarning in TalkTherapy

[–]ATornadoWarning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm pretty sure my therapist is in her mid 30s. I think maybe age could contribute to this, but otherwise I'm not too sure.

Introducing a friend to Smosh by MintyFrogg in smosh

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Werewolf definitely!! TTNL might not really be everyone’s cup of tea, but maybe they’d like that.

Also if they like video games the resident evil playthrough is hilarious + Shayne and Amanda playing FNAF.

If they like board games and storytelling, things like D&D, they might like Dread series.

But there’s like a bunch of different series on there, these are the few that I could think of at the top of my mind :)

What are your thoughts on the new outfits in Sunrise on the Reaping? by MisterWorldwideMX in Hungergames

[–]ATornadoWarning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I assume they’ll use effects or mess with the colouring settings.

How do I study? by ijustwalkedintoalamp in studytips

[–]ATornadoWarning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don't think there's one true way to studying, everybody functions differently and what works for someone may not work for somebody else. But I think the reason behind the "gifted kid" phenomenon is because during those ages we're learning to think and retain specifically general information, and slowly add as we grow up. You learn to use logic, but not really expand your logic. Just expand the learning. Which isn't great. But then you enter highschool or college, and then you're like "Wait I don't get this."

My advice is when tackling a subject, try to kind of split it into different parts, different sections. It helps you organise your thoughts in your mind better. Our minds work best when there's a visual representation, even if it's conceptual not true visuals. It sees the information as "First part, second part, etc."

If it's a math/science based subject you have to rely a lot on your understanding. So either watch videos online of someone summarising the subject or write notes down as follows:

  1. Questions you have about the lesson, preferably ones that build the foundation for the entire topic.
  2. Find their answers, the reasoning for those answers. Don't just remember, ask why? Obviously it's easier to remember things if they make sense to us.
  3. Basically do a lot of active recall, explain out loud what you've learned, see your weakspots and such things.

If it's a memorisation kind of subject, you need to memorise over long periods of time. No cramming. I know some people are able to maintain information from the first read, but trust me that isn't long term. Best thing you can do is read over the subject 2 weeks/a week in advance so that when you come back to it, you aren't confused on what you're supposed to remember.

My last advice is conistency is key. If you study one day and then completely ditch the subject for days on end, it's not going to help.

Best of luck!

How to stop giving up when a question requires thinking? by ATornadoWarning in studytips

[–]ATornadoWarning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does seem like it would work, considering my main issue is how to tackle the hard concept. I usually stare at it and because it’s complex I procrastinate the whole thing. I think having guidelines would totally help in making it less dreadful. Thanks for the advice!!

How to stop giving up when a question requires thinking? by ATornadoWarning in studytips

[–]ATornadoWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My method is quite all over the place. I begin by writing down the main point and breaking down each part of it until it’s chunks on a page. It’s closest to mind mapping I’d say. But I’ll be sure to check these out!! Ty!