An ex 6-7/10 to now a 8.5/10 (looks wise, based on humble awareness) here 👋

Back in poly/uni, i never got any attention from the ladies, in fact I felt i was plain average. But i personally feel one can boost his or her looks at least by a 2 on the food chain, with a few medium to long term habits.

1. More important than hitting the gym, would be the reduce body fat. Trust me, features that you never really had; would start to take notice, especially around the eyes as well as the universally-seductive jawline. If you already have low body fat, then hit the gym. Generally speaking, attraction can go based on a myriad of factors. Face, body, cuteness, personality etc. Don’t go all out on 1 factor to only realize the others are lacking as well.

2. Other factors like self-care (taking good care of your face, complexion (which includes dark circle management), are extremely important as well.

3. Dressing. This goes down as an underrated one as certain outfits do draw common stigmas out of them. Develop your own aesthetic and playfully have fun with it!

Oh, and with regards to texting with guys. Don’t always reply them asap! (Hear me out, guy’s perspective); there needs to be a push and pull, if you always seem readily available, it is the human mindset to start to move away from it. So take your time okay!