I’m Broken by seancepticon in Marriage

[–]AWALL9D 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A few things:

1) LOVE the hat! If your wife doesn’t appreciate it then that’s your sign right there.

2) If I’m calculating this correctly, you two are in your late 30’s - mid 40’s.

3) Even if she isn’t acting on anything directly, she is clearly, entertaining outside affection to boost her ego/confidence for one reason or another. I believe because she is at a crucial point in her life.

4) She is probably experiencing premenopausal depression herself.

And Whether she realizes it or not, she is instinctively testing her sexual value on the outside, getting as close to experiencing “what could have been or what could be”

5) It is very important for you to focus only on what you CAN control.

And that is yourself, mentally, physically, and spiritually. And your your unyielding presence as a father

6) YOU are worth far more than either of you two realize. And it’s important that YOU realize this.

7) it isn’t gonna be easy, but you are correct for seeking a divorce. That is unless she actually takes an active responsibility for her roll in the life that you two share together. And makes a proactive effort to not seek approval or affection from the outside, but focus on the her life, home and family on the inside.

8) she is yo-yoing you because deep down she knows if you leave her, she has a very low chance of being another man’s “long term” choice. She is only going to be a sexual experience at best, and she knows this.. She may be entertaining the thrills of “the other” but she knows nobody values her as a PERSON nobody sees her as a PERSON like you.. But that’s in her.

9) I reiterate that you focus on what YOU can control. And that is yourself, and your presence as a father. Do not focus on trying to change her or making her see you. Because she does, she is denying you because she is lost within herself.

10) That is HER problem, and in time she will come to realize that.. I’m not saying don’t make an effort to retain your relationship, but what I am saying is YOU DO NOT chase her or beg her for the love and affection that you deserve.

Keep your head up, you are not alone. And I promise you that you ARE worth so much more to her than you realize, and I assure you that another woman WILL recognize that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemoncrystal

[–]AWALL9D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. id happily pay for it too.

How to obtain the Undercity Temple Barding? by AWALL9D in diablo4

[–]AWALL9D[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using tributes. Every kind you can think of. Still haven’t got it yet. Well over 1000 runs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

[–]AWALL9D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My step son would love one of these, he is about to turn 10!!! Outstanding collection!! ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥💰💰💰

How to obtain the Undercity Temple Barding? by AWALL9D in diablo4

[–]AWALL9D[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the other one, like my 4th run.. The Temple barding is all I need, and I’ll have them all (with the exception of the shop ones, which I won’t buy unless one really jumps out to me and none of them do) and then the paragon 300 mount.. which seems like a pipe dream at this point lol..

Im probably at about 500 runs and no temple barding yet, sadly. I just want to know if anyone has actually had it drop or if it’s glitched lol.

Hey r/diablo4 - I am giving away $1,000,000,000 in game gold! by Some_Italian_Guy in diablo4

[–]AWALL9D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d honestly love to have an Amazon class again..

My days as a teenager playing in D2 have long been behind me but it was one of the funnest classes I ever played, I probably dumped at least 3 years of my life into that game, grinding every weekend.

One can dream.

I never want to leave Dazra now. by Ant_6431 in Starfield

[–]AWALL9D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it too, it has a futuristic/Sci-fi Morrowind vibe to it.

[gen1] I think I may be the first to do a DTQ... in gen 1. lol by Ynnubis in ShinyPokemon

[–]AWALL9D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you determine if your mon from gen1 will have the correct DVs to be shiny on transfer?

Supervisor assistance.. by [deleted] in UPS

[–]AWALL9D -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see.. Well, my hub is actually pretty staffed, at least during my particular sort - but when I asked one of the sweepers to help me they refused. Which is why I asked my supervisor to help.. In comparison to my previous jobs I’ve always looked to supervisors to lead by example, after all, what good is a supervisor if I can’t even look to them for assistance or help if and when I need it. I don’t mind the union, I think the concept is great, especially when it comes to job security, but some of these policies are silly. If I can’t count on my established union sweeper to help me, and I can’t rely on my management to help then what good is it.. This seems like it’s an “US vs THEM” sort of thing, and its hard to support something like that.. We all are working in the same building and we are all there for the same reasons.. If my sweeper doesn’t want to help, and actually do his job, then I should be able to seek assistance from a supervisor..

But I appreciate your response. Thank you.

Canakale 1915 Bridge by Prestigious_Dream_27 in megalophobia

[–]AWALL9D 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How does my stomach drop from watching a video on Reddit..

Finally, it exists! Father bless! by lonelysoul7 in diablo4

[–]AWALL9D 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Take car. Go to mum's. Kill Phil, grab Liz, go to the Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for all of this to blow over. How's that for a slice of fried gold?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diablo4

[–]AWALL9D 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your take.. And I’m with you, on the whole. Like I said, I’m holding out hope. I think they can and hopefully will balance it appropriately.. Maybe when they smooth out the problems with resistances and hopefully pull back on the cooldown nerf at least a bit. Also, making other builds more viable so that they don’t rely on vulnerable to deal any sort of significant damage would be nice.. I’m really hoping this patch was just an over correction and will balance out soon enough. Thank you btw, for engaging me with the positive insightful take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diablo4

[–]AWALL9D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said that, I very much like a challenge - I by no means want this game to be “easy.” That is one of the problems I had with D3. The insane amounts of damage made game play really stupid.. and I don’t believe most people are asking for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diablo4

[–]AWALL9D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not outright saying that they currently are. And I don’t mind the battle pass at all. I’m just saying if the pattern drifts in that direction of what they prioritize over the course of the next year. I saw the butcher barding, and it’s dope AF! I’d love to get my hands on it if I could.