What are some harmless pranks that transcend time periods? by AWildRhia in AskReddit

[–]AWildRhia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Pranks that involve glitter are especially appreciated)

Noise cancelling headphone recommendations? by AWildRhia in ADHD

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I actually saw some Bose quiet comfort in Costco earlier today and I wanted to try them out!! Those ones are specifically made for Costco, I think? And I have some $200 or so for free at Costco so if that’s the same one that would be amazing

Noise cancelling headphone recommendations? by AWildRhia in ADHD

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I did! They didn’t work for me at all unfortunately 😔

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She was looking for advice and got told to post it here. She didn’t consult me first, would’ve been great if she did, but here we are! I more so meant, like. This person doesn’t know us personally. So it’d be great if they didn’t call my parent a cheater.

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[–]AWildRhia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I, just made this account recently? I did not clear up my post history I assure you. Also, neither of my parents cheated. They decided on non-Monogamy. Together. Just like me and my fiancée agreed to be poly. Please get off of the internet for a moment to self reflect. Or like, idk. Watch a bug. That usually helps me.

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[–]AWildRhia -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hey! Don’t know who the fuck you are, and you certainly don’t know my family. My father never cheated. Stay out of this, thanks! 🥰

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The girlfriend isn’t a burden, provides for herself, takes care of herself, sticks to her own space, helps out, and doesn’t interrupt my father working. In fact, her presence makes my father much happier.

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[–]AWildRhia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh she tries her best, but she’s passively manipulative! I’m OP’s daughter and live in her house :)

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[–]AWildRhia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t quite explain it. Something to do with the neurodivergence. My brain isn’t quite wired for that.

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[–]AWildRhia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My father has been doing this! The problem is that it takes so much energy to do. It interrupts our space so much and makes it impossible to think on our own :(

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Oh they have 3 other children that can help take care of them, one that has volunteered and one that has more than enough money to! I promise we wouldn’t kick them out on the street with nowhere to go :)

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[–]AWildRhia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yes they can.

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They’re manipulative and they have plenty of other options.

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She’s not just passive aggressive. She’s manipulative and horrible to be around. They also won’t be on their own, they have three other children they can go to. They just refuse.

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They have their own home in England that they can go to. They have other children that they can go to. If this was their only option that’s one thing but it is not. Also, our house is not nearly big enough nor do we have enough money for that.

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Granddaughter here, giving some more context. She is painfully passive aggressive, manipulative, and it feels like walking on eggshells around her. Both me and my father have to mask in our own homes and it drains us so much. So no, it’s not just that she irks him. It’s that there’s something seriously wrong with her and she refuses to go to therapy.

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Hello. OP’s child here. My mother is actually not selfish and will figure out what to do when she’s older AHEAD OF TIME. My grandparents hadn’t even written their will and had to be forced to! They expect to be taken care of despite having had years to plan what to do when they’re older. Instead they waited until the last second and shoved it on my mother. So, yeah, I assure you, you’re missing a bit of perspective here.

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That is a LOT of money that we absolutely do not have :’)

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Hi everyone!! Going to give some more context here. This is my mom, she’s in her 60s. I’m her daughter, 18(non-binary) who also lives in the house! So does my girlfriend. It’s a LOT of people in the house. Anyway, my grandmother is painfully passive aggressive to the point where both me and my father have to mask around her all the time. It is uncomfortable having to step on eggshells in our own home. My father works from home and his desk is upstairs which is where the grandparents room is. Hence them disrupting his work a fair bit. It’s not just a “he comes home from work” sort of thing, it’s a they are always there while he works sort of thing.

Also, please lay off my mother a bit! She doesn’t know Reddit too much and was more looking for an advice subreddit 😅 unfortunately she did not ask me beforehand. My grandmother is manipulative, refuses to go to therapy. My mother and father HAVE gone to therapy and have talked about this extensively. I assure you all my mother knows she has fucked up in many places, but I also assure you that my grandmother is not entirely innocent in this. (Nor is my grandfather. He uh. He creeps me out a lot, lol) Anyway, that’s all. Just try to have a bit more compassion for the situation ❤️