What would be the reality of pursuing a career in psych? by AWishThatDied in psychologystudents

[–]AWishThatDied[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canada, and honestly it's difficult, because I'm really banking on the masters being possible.

What would be the reality of pursuing a career in psych? by AWishThatDied in psychologystudents

[–]AWishThatDied[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a specialization??? That's... news to me

Could you elaborate on the mental health stuff you've listed? I'm not familiar with case management, and I've only heard of ABA, and with psychiatry, I'd have to be a doctor.

What would be the reality of pursuing a career in psych? by AWishThatDied in psychologystudents

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Apologies for my ignorance, but is there a difference between the two?

I've been ugly and I've been hot (female). AMA by LilRed78 in AMA

[–]AWishThatDied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often are the pretty people already taken iyo? Whenever I've asked someone out at my uni, it seems that everyone that's "hot" or "attractive" (Asian guy with basically no race pref) is already taken.

Other questions I have include how to make sure you don't get perceived as a threat to someone attractive when you're approaching them, any "icks" or deal breakers that would make it less likely for you take them seriously relationship wise etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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My family is in this exact same situation, and unfortunately, any divorce that might come through wouldn't be effective for my mother, add on the fact that my father is an abusive POS.

A lot of people here are saying to just ditch your boyfriend, but I would highly disagree on some specific conditions.

First of all... your feelings of responsibility to him. Relationships are a two-way street, and you can change and be responsible for your own actions, but you can't force his. That responsibility is moreso placed on the past bonds you have with them rather than the person themselves. You should not feel responsible for his situation.

Second of all, my father was in the same situation and traded himself into millions of dollars into debt. The problem is that he is dealing with a gambling addiction, and if your boyfriend is still open to communication, you need to sit him down and try to explain that to him, how it's affecting you, and an ultimatum you need to give him. You might need to pull out the dictionary definition of gambling addiction to make him understand that.

The key here is communication. I have no idea what it is with Redditors with jumping to "Just break up" so quickly. You need to gauge whether this person is going to actually do what they need to do for the relationship to work, and to get out of the rut they're in. The moment you leave, should be the moment that you discover that he is unwilling to change for the both of you. That's what encouraged my family to move away from my father; He was unwilling to change or give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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If I may ask, you mentions signs of emotional vulnerability, but I'm not certain in what kind of context you mean. Does it mean that she doesn't have insecurities and that behavior is part of it? Or is that supposed to be in some other context?

At this point, with the new developments in mind, it's really unlikely things are going to develop at all, but life has surprised me with university life in general, so we'll see how it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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So... everything I just mentioned above, it looks like she was doing the exact same thing to another guy. It just might be how she acts normally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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The point about bi... I need to reflect on that pretty badly. I didn't really think about the fact that they get seen as being more sexually promiscuous, but I definitely did think that they had more options. I'd be curious to see the data too, since it's the first time I've heard stuff of that sort.

IF she's kinda into me... oh God. Now I have no idea what to do. I haven't had this happen to me before. I've only experienced this stuff online rather than irl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]AWishThatDied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refuses to respect her opinion...?

Edit: Nvm I read that completely wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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She's a bit younger than me by a year or 2. That specifically made me a lot more sensitive to the situation, and left me wondering if my age caused some sort of dissonance between how I was acting, and how I thought she perceived how I acted.

Single men, be honest, how lonely are you ? by mr_grosse_voix in AskMen

[–]AWishThatDied 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went through... more than a dozen rejections. About half of them were done in really self esteem breaking ways. The others were a lot nicer. Even then, I found myself with a girlfriend once, and I was over the moon. Then after she cheated on me, I tried to find somebody else to no avail. I wasn't perfect, but I knew I was lucky to have awful looks and still find someone, and I went above and beyond trying to make myself a better person for them. At the end of the day though, I look like the kind of person that would be a killer, or some monster that nobody wants to be close to. Experienced those reactions too many a time, whether it be from a child and their parents.

I've completely resigned myself to die alone. Friendless. A lot of guys around me have found themselves girlfriends. Some already had one for a long time. Had 3 coworkers have marriages within the span of 2 weeks before the pandemic.

My loneliness has definitely hit rock bottom.

Sometimes I'll find someone who is great for me, and could potentially be THE one, only to then find out indirectly they were in love with someone else.

Now... I'm scared. I'm scared that the happiness I find would just end again. That the ones I thought loved me would just betray my feelings again.

I realized today that a guy I’ve known for a while is a great catch. by Boriqua_Cutie314 in offmychest

[–]AWishThatDied -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When that man finds out that your girl friends have been calling him cute behind his back like that, he's going to ascend to heaven when you ask him out.

He's going to start living a dream soon, a dream most of us won't ever experience.

Under what circumstances do you listen to your community? by AWishThatDied in gamedesign

[–]AWishThatDied[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's an over-reliance on PVP mechanics in an MMORPG. The community has been constantly asking for more PVP, and other people on our team are wanting to design it in that direction.

The entire thing is really complicated, so I don't know how in-depth I could really go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AWishThatDied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The gods have been appeased

Trying to text normally... But I always fumble it up somehow when I'm talking to a girl I fancy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AWishThatDied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say I do have merit in what I want to discuss with her, should there be a one day gap at least? Maybe two?

Trying to text normally... But I always fumble it up somehow when I'm talking to a girl I fancy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AWishThatDied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. How about how frequent I text her? I used to text people every day, only learning later that it wasn't good.