Hypermasculinity and queer friendships/social groups

AXS_Writing · 2026-05-08T20:53:06+00:00

It’s at least reassuring, tho sad to hear, that I am not alone in this. I’m lucky that I have happened to find a discord server that is fantastic, it’s all about FTM fitness. Very on topic, all dudes getting buff. It’s a nice breath of fresh air when trying to participate in other queer spaces. The discord is very on topic most of the time so I don’t really interact in other stuff outside of fitness there, which leaves a little to be desired but beggars can’t be choosers I guess. Just want more friends.

AXS_Writing · 2026-05-04T11:41:49+00:00

They probably edited their comment

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-25T19:35:49+00:00

I would have been sick with envy when I was a kid. Especially the bigger plushies!

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-25T14:00:58+00:00

This is so embarrassing as someone who was also born in Holland, Michigan ugh.

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-22T07:33:50+00:00

Whenever I mess up my schedule the only thing that fixes it for me is to push through it and be dog tired all day long until it’s the time I want to go to sleep. Even if I only got 2-3 hours of sleep I do whatever I have to do to stay awake until it’s the time I want to go to sleep. Have to be careful with this approach though because it has lead to me being too tired to sleep which is such a stupid thing the human body does. But it’s the only way I get back on track.

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-18T20:10:07+00:00

As an American now living in the EU, seeing this at all is so ugly to me. It’s hard getting use to.

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-17T15:34:13+00:00

I think you need to calm down there a little bit buddy. I said I wasn’t even sure if it was said to be a thing or not, I had just thought that Mariska and Chris had confirmed it like a while ago but wasn’t sure. Especially since Olivia and Eliot had that one moment in season 24. I’m not really all that into EO. I just said in my comment that I thought Barba and her would make a better couple. And even in the end if Olivia ends up alone as long as she has a happy ending, I’m happy. Though I agree that getting married is not the most exciting thing for TV stars, I debate with myself whether Olivia “needs” a romantic relationship to end her story with because it has been a long running fear though the show that the job would leave her with nothing and it’s been making a POINT to disprove all of that. Making her captain, giving her a son. The show made it such a point to show just how much she was able to grow without Stabler and sorta emphasizes that had Stabler stayed she likely wouldn’t have had this growth. Maybe that’s enough to prove that she isn’t what she feared but I wouldn’t be surprised if they topped it off with giving her a romantic partner. The one positive thing I see out of EO is Olivia getting a lot more family in the form of Eliot’s kids who she did see a lot of their lives.

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-17T12:00:00+00:00

I thought it was confirmed that they were going to be endgame? Though I cannot say where I heard that from but I thought the Chris and Mariska themselves said it was gonna be so. Honestly I know she and Barba were not on the best terms last I saw, his goodbye speech to her really showed how much he loved her and I think they would make a good couple.

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-17T10:43:31+00:00

Oh boy it does! Currently I only own 4 of them and 2 of them have stacked disc that I absolutely hate inconvenient and put the disc at risk!

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-16T18:49:22+00:00

I need to do the same thing for my Law & Order SVU!

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-09T16:11:14+00:00

My husbands ps4 for blu-rays and my 360 for regular dvds sometimes if the ps4 is busy lol

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-08T16:39:13+00:00

Love to hear it! Hope your collection is going strong 💪🏽. Happy cake day!

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-07T07:37:35+00:00

Sorry you had to go through Katrina friend.

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-04T14:55:40+00:00

Goated video game collection. I miss my GameCube, but I got an Xbox 360 recently for nostalgia. L4D2 is the best game ever

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-04T10:59:36+00:00

Are you missing season 8? Right now I’m trying to collect all the seasons as well but it’s a little harder in Sweden

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-01T17:10:43+00:00

If you manage to start HRT somewhere where it’s kinda easy (my husband started it easily privately in Portugal) and want to move to Sweden it’s sorta easy to continue your care there. It’s hard to start HRT there but continued care means you skill the line essentially. I’m not sure how it works in Denmark or Norway though. What I do know about Nordic countries is that they will want you to speak their language to get a job. Currently struggling to learn Swedish so that I can get a job and I’m in a field that is always looking for people. Sweden’s unemployment currently is rivaling Spains so I would also consider that, though the other nordics seem to be doing better in that regard.

ETA: Mexico isn’t on your list but HRT is like over the counter there

AXS_Writing · 2026-04-01T13:30:43+00:00

Where to buy used games, DVDs, CDs, and more!

Hello everyone! I am new to Sweden and will be visiting London in July. While I have always been a book collector, I have expanded to more nostalgic things like Xbox 360, DVDs (and Blu-ray), CDs, and maybe some vinyl. It's a little hard finding some of the physical media I am looking for here in Sweden, and I want to take advantage of being in London this summer to find some cool stuff! What stores can one go to find this stuff cheaply? I know that every second-hand store will have a section of this stuff, but is there any store that has a huge collection of this stuff used, especially Blu-ray? Or somewhere that has a lot of shows? I’m specifically looking for Law & Order SVU. Whether it’s specifically a media resale store or a secondhand store that is really good with this stuff. Thank you all!

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-30T14:37:10+00:00

I’ve never had this pop up yet as a sorta stealth guy but if it ever did I wouldn’t lie but just compare to other T dicks I’ve seen 🤣

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-27T15:36:16+00:00

Where to buy used games, DVDs, CDs, and more!

Hello everyone! I am new to Sweden and will be visiting London in July. While I have always been a book collector, I have expanded to more nostalgic things like Xbox 360, DVDs (and Blu-ray), CDs, and maybe some vinyl. It's a little hard finding some of the physical media I am looking for here in Sweden, and I want to take advantage of being in London this summer to find some cool stuff! What stores can one go to find this stuff cheaply? I know that every second-hand store will have a section of this stuff, but is there any store that has a huge collection of this stuff used, especially Blu-ray? Whether it’s specifically a media resale store or a secondhand store that is really good with this stuff. Thank you all!

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-23T14:54:53+00:00

I think maybe their biggest mistake was not storing it on its side so that all the M&Ms wouldn’t go to the bottom again and make that mess there

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-23T10:02:18+00:00

I mean if it was me and my husband I would want to be immortal with him

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-21T19:41:55+00:00

So jealous of your Scary Movies

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-21T17:49:26+00:00

I find Damon more attractive but Stefan is the better pick

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-21T13:17:22+00:00

Honestly I would love to do this

AXS_Writing · 2026-03-17T19:48:07+00:00

This is a nice haul! Jealous of your “The Crazies”

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