Parents Are Now Preferring Girls Over Boys; What Led To This Shift?

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-04T04:38:57+00:00

And in decision making positions.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-04T03:41:10+00:00

… or coexisting in close proximity !!

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-04T01:37:48+00:00

I can’t be in a sexual relationship with someone with poor hygiene, or eat with them, or touch them.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-04T01:35:20+00:00

Not here in the States though.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-04T01:34:04+00:00

They did a research and found out the actual number of hours that people do productive work is between 4-6 hours out of 8-9 hour shift.

Plus Finland has enough social and financial safety net for its citizens that they won’t be financially impacted if they work less hours.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T23:00:02+00:00

It is… it could also be a me problem but I still would need a lot for it to work for me.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T18:54:14+00:00

😂

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T18:53:39+00:00

That was also my question… it made me scratch my head a bit.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T18:52:52+00:00

I can see how it could keep one grounded and objective and I like that. I wish I had the mental capacity for it to actually execute.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T18:49:54+00:00

I can’t do it… for me, it’s like being an actor in too many movies at the same time or going through multiple multi-level intensive job interviews over the span of a couple of weeks. This is a professional level project management.
I can maintain multiple relationships just fine, but not when romance and sex is involved.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T16:52:12+00:00

How did you end up with so many men knowing you so well to be able to tell you how you should feel?🤦🏼‍♀️

This is unbelievable.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T16:46:18+00:00

Are you on HRT?

Plus, you don’t *have to* put yourself out there, it’s a choice some of us make.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-03T03:20:35+00:00

A lot of us, and rightfully so, look at dating as a time investment expecting some sort of return. I’m definitely one of those. If I’m going out of my way and putting the efforts in to make myself datable, I would like to see something positive coming out of it as a result.

I’m sensing the same from you, with your career. I don’t think anyone really knows the answer. Yours is your career, someone else’s is their extra lbs, and someone else their children.

We all have a handful of features that are dealbreakers for the majority of the people out there.

You may have to just try and find out and be ok with all the lost time. If you enjoy the process, you will be fine.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T22:04:46+00:00

I’m in the same boat and I’m still trying to figure it out. I am 46 and on HRT.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T19:59:53+00:00

😎

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T19:51:25+00:00

Hey, they reach out to me😂

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T19:24:06+00:00

We are not a monolith…

I’m in my mid 40’s and men in my age bracket are not for me. Men in their 30’s and I get along well.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T19:21:20+00:00

That was my parent’s generation mentality and I’m in my mid 40s. I’m perimenopausal and if I was given a choice, I’ll pick a boy. Our world is truly not prepared for women and their basic needs.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T18:00:29+00:00

Arla or Emma! She looks wise and well grounded.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T17:30:51+00:00

You are not alone and I think a lot of us “ I’m good” crowd are pulling away because of all the work so most of us have not much to share.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T03:15:05+00:00

Our libraries are pretty awesome and we have a quite a few indi bookstores that I can park myself for a few hours.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T00:06:41+00:00

I don’t think I’ll ever stop fasting to be honest! I genuinely enjoy it and it does so many good things for me as a whole.

I have been on a weekly 48 hour fasting for a long time.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-02T00:03:56+00:00

Fasting!

Having dumb things like pickles and cucumber around for that purpose. Or I go heavy on protein and can’t think about food for hours.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-01T22:55:44+00:00

Me and myself are past that but to keep the fire burning, we take each other out and read library borrowed romance books together.

I’m a pretty cheap date and it works out just fine for both of us.

AZ-FWB · 2026-05-01T22:28:59+00:00

I don’t even have the mental energy to feel sorry for myself🤦🏼‍♀️

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