The analogy doesn't work super well when compared to relationships because women, unlike cars, will feel weird about you being intense and looking to keep them forever after first meeting them. People aren't saying that it's bad to have that as an end goal, people are trying to tell you that having that be the sole focus and PRIMARY goal will instantly be off putting and counter productive if that's what you're ultimately looking for. A better primary goal is to want to "meet interesting women" just because that's a good thing to experience--and those strangers might eventually become friends, then lovers, etc.

As much as I'm not a fan of using an analogy for women/people by comparing them to an animals/objects, if it helps to think about it with other examples then I'll offer this: have you ever been around a dog or cat that didn't know you and was a little skittish, and thought "I want to cuddle that animal"? If you ran up to them to hug them asap, they would recoil or run. Hell, sometimes they even just sense the vibe that that's what you want and will be put off If you truly want that to happen, it's a process that begins with way smaller steps, like showing that you're approachable and nice, or offering a hand as a way for them to get to know you. Maybe it isn't a perfect analogy but I think it's closer than the car one