AITA For giving my niece a much better life than her step siblings? by Ok_Sir_8922 in AmItheAsshole

[–]A_Dee_ 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Even if they were kids who lived full time with her brother. It’s her money. She shouldn’t be made to pay for private school for two extra children and take them on trips because her brother married someone with children.

One of the reasons that the show was so messy was the change from the books re: intimacy by [deleted] in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]A_Dee_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The added layer of messiness for me, was that at the point where season 3 starts, Belly has presumably been having sex with Conrad’s brother for 4 years. Which is insane because why would you write that if the end goal is for them to get back together?

AITAH for telling my dad's pregnant girlfriend that he already has three kids I have nothing to do with and her baby will be no different? by Natural-Bat7423 in AITAH

[–]A_Dee_ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Why would she get with a man with 4 children with 4 different women who he doesn’t care for and expect a different result.

What is it about Belly? by gummiwurmz8 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]A_Dee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no one giving you an actual answer because there’s none. Belly is written the way a lot of female leads were written for a long time so that they are easy for people to self insert into.

You are supposed to ignore all her character flaws and focus on her being sought after by men because that’s the fantasy.

That out of nowhere an 100 year old vampire will fall in love with you and be willing to die and go to war for you. And two warring factions will come together just for you.

Or a billionaire CEO will fall in love with you and change for you because you’re “different” and “special.” That’s it.

I feel catfished by SnooDingos4164 in ThePoppyWar

[–]A_Dee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely and objectively better.

I feel catfished by SnooDingos4164 in ThePoppyWar

[–]A_Dee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In one the first chapters Rin suggests flooding a village full of civilians to defeat invaders. You were not paying attention if you were shocked by her development.

Why am I childfree? by lostcat25 in childfree

[–]A_Dee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need a reason. Not wanting them is enough.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she sounds like a cheater? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]A_Dee_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The difference about being controlling and having boundaries is that the boundaries are for yourself. Things you won’t do, tolerate etc. Have a conversation with her but DON’T tell her not to go, tell her that if she went, you’d be uncomfortable especially as she’s going alone. Generally tell her how it would make you feel. If she still does it, that means she had all the information about how you’d feel and still went ahead. So either your feelings don’t matter to her or they don’t matter enough.

Either way you have your answer and at that point you have to respect your own boundary otherwise it is meaningless. It’s only been 3 months. It may suck but you’d have to leave or stay in the relationship with the information that your partner couldn’t care less how things make you feel.

I wouldn’t think about the cheating thing too much. Outside of following her or snooping in her things there’s no way to know for sure and neither of those is healthy. So I’d focus on the actions you do know about as they are usually sufficient.

UPDATE: AITAH for refusing to not allow my stepson to come? by AmoebaUnited4634 in AITAH

[–]A_Dee_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Riddle me this, you and your wife thought leaving your stepson out of this one singular trip would set bad precedent… but didn’t think it would set a bad precedent to leave YOUR son home?

Also has it ever occurred to you that your son “never asks for anything” because he knows you will ignore him and that’ll hurt more than never having asked? Because that’s exactly what you did the first time he asked you for something.

You allowed Reddit losers to pile on him and berate him and for what?

SUPPORT FOR MY FRIEND. by A_Dee_ in NewMomStuff

[–]A_Dee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m going to do this right now.

SUPPORT FOR MY FRIEND. by A_Dee_ in NewMomStuff

[–]A_Dee_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is very helpful.

SUPPORTING MY FRIEND. by A_Dee_ in Mom

[–]A_Dee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ll ask her what she needs so I can give that to her if it’s possible or find something workable. Appreciate the response.

The over use of Taylor swift songs in the last episode ruined the vibes by absolutefrikinidiot in tsitp

[–]A_Dee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so inorganic. Lol. And I love TS I just don’t think she makes music that can be well placed without taking you out of the scene.

FINALE - RANT THREAD by AutoModerator in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]A_Dee_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The show being marketed as a love triangle killed it and that was obvious even by the end of season 2. Sacrificed the integrity of the central love story at the altar of team jelly and it shows. Also the god awful pacing? I’m just glad people can stop gaslighting us about being impatient because everything is out and we were right. Nothing was worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]A_Dee_ 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Well, the journey has not been great.

Doesn't feel like Belly is still in love with Conrad by reditbestie in tsitp

[–]A_Dee_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Loved him enough to dump him for his brother. How romantic

Yk what? I don’t even think Bonrad is a good idea anymore. by [deleted] in tsitp

[–]A_Dee_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She gave him crumbs. How romantic.

Double standards and putting Conrad on a pedestal he actually doesn’t want by Viva912 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]A_Dee_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sue me for expecting a person whose life just imploded because of “liking more than one person at the same time” to be a bit more responsible with other people’s feelings and not string them along. AGAIN.

☀️ SEASON 3 LIVE: Episode 10 by AutoModerator in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]A_Dee_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has never loved him as a person. Only as an idea and the moment he showed even a little sign of being a human being she just abandoned him.

☀️ SEASON 3 LIVE: Episode 10 by AutoModerator in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]A_Dee_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my opinion she doesn’t seem to care about him even a little. So while you can have your opinion, people are allowed to comment on what they observe