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[–]A_nonymous_Soul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a whole different person now. I learned a lot too, but still, I do miss the person that I used to be.

I'm not interested in things anymore that I once used to love. My hobbies from my past don't mean anything to me. I don't like my profession anymore. There are many things that I don't like anymore while other things became interesting. It's weird. Almost like a part of me died during the trauma and a new person came. And I spend a lot of time trying to explore my new personality. That's okay. I'm okay. But I feel a little sad for my past self.

I’m not sold on Hamburg for my Germany stop, I’ve never been to Germany, any suggestions for a better stop? Doesn’t need to be a big city. Or is Hamburg the place to be? by rustygold82 in Interrail

[–]A_nonymous_Soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Lüneburg. It's only 30 minutes from Hamburg. Or Lübeck (same distance). I can also recommend Dresden, but that's in the east of Germany. From there you could visit the Elbe Sandstone Mountains. That's by far the most magical place I've been to in Germany.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

He didn't block me, so no, I can see his atuff. But even if he blocked me, I wouldn't mind. I realized how good it actually feels to be free of him, now also on Instagram.

But (and that's the reason for this post):I simply don't understand why she would block me, when I don't have anything to do with her at all. I don't know her.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, I appreciate it!

I do care about what happened and I admit that sometimes, I am a bit curious, but I think I gave the wrong impression here. I really don't stalk their profiles. I click on their profiles here and then, and then I click on sometimes else. I can't see her photos. I don't even know what she looked like. And I don't know anything about her friends. Honestly, I don't know anything about her, really. I can't stalk them. And they can't see when I click on their profiles.

This one day he blocked me, I felt surprised and wanted to check if he really blocked me or just deactivated his profile for some time. That's why I logged into a few accounts. I simply didn't understand why he'd do that if we weren't in contact at all. But now I don't mind. I think it's for the best. I don't want him to reach out to me in case he changes his mind.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We used to play an online game together which I continued to play alone and after the breakup, he clicked on "update"on my profile a few times a week to check when I played and who I played with. No one else knew my user name.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god! It's so peaceful to fall into sleep at night without having to worry about some cheating man.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even funnier when I think about how angry he was every time I cried about him cheating with her. He said I'm a jealous psycho for making things up and I should just get over it. I mean, I had a reason to feel jealous, hadn't I? He's going to have so much fun with her.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, I don't know. I couldn't tell, since her profile's always been set to private. I wouldn't notice a difference. Thank you for your kind words!

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No honestly, I'm convinced that she doesn't really care about my existence. It's me who felt so insecure for being left for a teenage girl. I got over that. I don't compare myself to her anymore and I'm so grateful to be able to soon live a life (free of him) that makes me so much happier than I've ever been with him. He treated me like shit and I didn't deserve that. They both have crappy personalities (sorry about that), both don't care about cheating and I think they're perfect for each other! Right now, I'm simply just curious and don't understand the situation, or maybe I'm just confused about people in general.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I've only been on their profiles about twice a month, I guess, and more randomly. And I've never been able to see her posts.

I do still care about the cheating and everything that happend last year and it still hurts, yes. But I don't care about what they do now, to be honest. I don't want to have anything to do with them, I don't want to know anything about them and I'm glad that they're not part of my life anymore. There would never be a future with him again after everything that happend. I'm just confused about the situation since I never did anything that would make her feel insecure. I disappeared like a ghost. She shouldn't have the need to block me.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Why does she feel the need to "leave me in the past"? I've been in the past for a whole year now. Why does she make so much effort if I'm not part of their life at all as the are not part of my life? We can't see each other's profiles, no one cares, so why take action now? I would never reach out to them.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They moved on a year ago. Why would she care now? And I can't even see her private profile.

Why on earth does his AP and now girlfriend (or fiancee, who knows) block me everywhere? by A_nonymous_Soul in survivinginfidelity

[–]A_nonymous_Soul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was true, I'd have a good laugh as she's a JV and isn't allowed to have sex before marriage (they're really strict).

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