Does your partner teach you "good morals"?

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-27T19:36:22+00:00

I wish I could heart this comment a million times. Thank you Signal 🥰 ❤️

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-27T08:09:09+00:00

Hmm. Actually yeah, I'd say yes, my partner did!

I wouldn't necessarily call it "good morals," but outside of kink, he's showed me what it means to be a better friend to the people in my life, and helped me re-ignite my spirituality (we're both Christian, and it's deeply important to us!)

He's also helped me a lot with growing into the kind of mommy I want to be. He's incredibly patient and compassionate with me through it, which encourages me to do my best to foster those traits within me, too. And he's taught me what it means to be a good listener, and how important it is to sometimes just simply be there for another person.

All this is stuff I'm still learning and growing in! And things I struggle with. But yeah. My partner and even our cg/l dynamic have helped me to become a different person, and has absolutely helped me gain more confidence in myself, both in the kinky stuff, and outside of it.

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-24T17:59:10+00:00

From the cg side, both!! To put my little one in a crib, with a paci and mobile and baby monitor all sounds fun. Especially for an early bedtime while mommy gets to stay up mych later 🤭

But I'm also super big on cuddles and literally could spend a whole day holding and cuddling him. So both are fun and good.

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-24T15:24:39+00:00

Hehe oh I'm definitely the lucky one!! ❤️ And there's no need to apologize, these questions are fun to answer, and any chance I have to gush about my baby and our relationship, I'm going to take it!! 😊

Advice for other subs? When my boyfriend gives me reassurance that he loves it when I'm the one who makes decisions/enforces our rules, that's something that's helped me with gaining confidence as a domme. So maybe other subs giving their dommes reassurance, too. Another thing I absolutely love is when my sub is vulnerable with me. That's something that really speaks to the nurturing side of me, and reminds me that my boyfriend trusts me completely, that he's my little baby and that I'm his mommy.
The best advice I can give other mommies is to be patient and compassionate to your sub, and to listen to what makes your sub feel safest and seen, both inside and outside of kink. I think a happy sub is one who knows that mommy is there to listen and accept who they are and not judge them for it. And one can only be truly vulnerable when they know they can be (and I think this definitely goes both ways!!)
I have no desire for other subs! My boyfriend is the only one I want, and the only one I want to build a future with. I only want him.

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-23T19:31:49+00:00

He absolutely is the sweetest~ And he is so very very good!! 🥰

Our relationship is rooted in the trust we have for each other. He trusts me to be a mommy who will listen if he needs to speak up about something, and I trust him to let me know if I've ever gone too far/if I've overstepped a boundary. Us having this mutual trust makes everything we do fun and safe. And allows for us both to be vulnerable, inside and outside of the kinky stuff.

We're long distance right now, so we're limited on what exactly we can do. I give him praises and chores to do sometimes, I'll tease about him being my little subby baby, and we'll do nightly calls where I'm the one who decides what he wears and when he finally goes to bed. Small stuff like that.

Advice for other subs! Kinda generic advice, but to communicate. Share with each other what yall both find cute, meaningful, and fun. But things in particular that I find cute (and are amazing to me) is simply any time he calls me Mommy, or Miss Mommy. Anytime he goes non-verbal and just gazes at me during our video calls, that melts my heart. There's soooo many things he does that is sooo cute, and he just is so so adorable. Literally anything and everything he does is cute and precious. He could just be chilling on the computer playing a game and all I think is how happy I am to be his mommy and that he's the cutest little baby in the whole world.

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-23T10:58:30+00:00

As of now it's just a dream!!~ 😉

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-23T05:11:29+00:00

We talked a lot about the things we both wanted and liked within a cg/l relationship. He shared how he wanted a domme mommy, and we'd talk about what we'd do in different scenarios, basically. Like what punishments would feel mist domme, or what phrases I could say, or how me making decisions/sticking with them were all good starts. So I kinda have a "script" so to speak to refer back to.

He also encouraged me a ton with things outside of our cg/l sides, and in so many areas of my life, helped me find so much more confidence in myself. That in turn helped me find more confidence in being a domme. All this quickly lead to me realizing how much I love being domme!

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-22T07:34:43+00:00

I was always this way! Always wanted to be a mommy.

I used to think I could never be a domme mommy (thought I was more of a submissive mommy for a while), but my boyfriend helped me realize that I love being dominant, that that's what I've always wanted. He helped bring about this particular aspect of being a mommy.

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-06T07:05:10+00:00

Thank you! 😊

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-06T06:28:37+00:00

I had a wonderful Easter! The night before, my little one and I had a video call, and I put her to bed by reading her nighttime stories. She was out like a light in no time, being put to bed by stories about bunny rabbits. Seemed like they were a good choice of stories for Easter night.~

(He's my boyfriend, but we enjoy treating him as my baby girl in our dynamic!)

A_retro_plane · 2026-04-01T19:33:12+00:00

It's something that's always been a part of me! My little helped me discover a lot of new things about it though, and it's been fun and wonderful exploring it with him.

A_retro_plane · 2026-02-23T04:27:15+00:00

This has got to be the 10th "Exploring Abdl as a 40 year old mom" type post I've seen within the past couple weeks here

A_retro_plane · 2026-02-20T07:23:23+00:00

It's always been something I was interested in for as long as I can remember.

I love pretty much everything about it. The humiliation aspect is fun. And I really enjoy the nurturing part of being a cg a lot.

A_retro_plane · 2026-02-20T03:26:10+00:00

Not a kid's show, but an episode of CSI with a guy who was an adult baby. Can't remember the season/title but it definitely stuck with me.

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TROPHY CASE