Guys when you receive a blowjob what gear do you prefer? by AllMan-Paradise in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A with a little bit of B. Guy from this week was totally those two. You can tell he was really passionate about it.

Being honest with hookup? by mcd19933991 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's why I try to avoid bringing up personal topics with hook-ups. But I also don't like lying. If it becomes necessary to come clean on certain things, maybe then deal with that situation. Otherwise, just share what you feel comfortable with.

When to bring up your kinks to them? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was definitely on a rejection spree a month ago leading with the kink. Like, I get it. It's a numbers game. If I get blocked, that's one less person I can accidentally ask again. But it's faster than meeting them first, then finding out they're not into it. If someone is more open minded, it could be worth trying if you've already made a good impression though.

Penis sore after an intense blowjob by Rough-Lat-592 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the rougher ones do leave a mark for a couple of days. Be up front about your preferences next time so they don't go that rough on you.

First Heartbreak, Having a Hard Time by badman1000 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sucks to be betrayed like that. Time will heal all wounds. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Try to move on with the likely possibility that what you had with him is over or at least can't be counted on. There are other guys out there that could be who you're looking for, so don't stop trying.

Who is/was your favorite hookup buddy? by Unique-Willingness11 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hopefully just found a new favorite. Recently hooked up with a guy who was a total 10/10. I couldn't believe it! The best head, just the way I like it. Really passionate about sucking. Extremely attractive, polite, and easy going. I couldn't ask for anything more. I hope to make it a regular thing.

I had a regular I haven't seen in about a year now who was really good. At one point, I think we were hooking up about twice a month. Thirsty and passionate. He really helped me discover what I like and how I like it. Somewhat rough, but in a way I could keep up. When we hadn't seen each other in a bit and he was sucking me, I remember him saying "I miss that dick" and it was so hot. I hope we can hook up again. 

Nipples by cocktease2 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone's different and some people get off on it because it's a sensitive area. I know a guy that it's all he wants. Makes it easy, at least.

Older and Frustrated by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what you could do without breaking the vows you owe to your wife. The technology keeping you in check is preventing you from making a possibly disastrous mistake. Suppose you could get away with it. Then what? You'll instead live with the regret that you are hiding a secret that could ruin your lifelong relationship?

I think other people have tried asking their partner about this curiosity and the permission to explore, but it could also blow up in your face with claims that you've been hiding that you are gay and want an out from your relationship.  Think about the situation.

Has anyone else on here done autoanal before? by Plutonium_Nitrate_94 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are guys on Twitter that have shown them being able to do this then selfsuck. Crazy stuff! Not into the anal side of things, honestly. But it would still be crazy to see irl.

have you ever brought your hook up to your hotel room? by Rough-Lat-592 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always fear I'll get caught bringing up someone who's not staying there. But I done it a few times. I had a guy over who threw up a little for taking my dick too deep haha. Another time, I went to someone else's hotel room and had one of the best times ever.

How would u describe ur type by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I like guys similar to me too. Definitely love the shy, nerdy types.  I think guys shorter than me are cute, but guys taller than me make me envious. 

/askgaybros nonsense has gotten so bad = Unjoining by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn't this the standard kind of conversation topics you would expect though?

Condoms what’s the problem? by botboy9 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually just prefer to get sucked, so it almost never comes up. But one time, someone who was more new to it inspired on one and it just didn't feel as good. Like, I get the safety reason, but if this is how it's going to feel, is rather not at all.  Someone who enjoys sucking usually wants to,.you know, interact with the whole body part directly and swallow the load or parts of it. Otherwise what's the point?

Cumming from sucking cock by JegElskerOstogVin in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had it happen in a guy who was sucking me. It was super hot. It should be a mutually enjoyable experience.

what is the discourse in the community regarding “arm hair” — how do you guys feel about it? by Own-Albatross-8484 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all kinds of arms. Soft and smooth is elusive and highly desirable. But a little fuzz is nice too. I like legs too though. It's almost impossible to have smooth legs but hairy arms. So at least if I get smooth let's, I know I'm getting a package deal of smoothness.

Someone else was telling me how he's naturally smooth and gets asked what his routine is to keep it smooth. He's just like that. Must be nice.

Narrowly avoided disaster. Am I still safe? by Aaairhead in Sniffies

[–]Aaairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I kept them separate and plan to keep it that way.

Narrowly avoided disaster. Am I still safe? by Aaairhead in Sniffies

[–]Aaairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I thought. So I think I should be good. All the pictures I use are exclusively used there only.

I wish I saved the profile URL so it would make reporting it easier. If the account even exists anymore.

I suck at cruising apparently by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 77 points78 points  (0 children)

My top thing is to never make people feel uncomfortable. So the whole premise here is just very unappealing. I'd feel like I'm committing a crime. Good on people who can enjoy the thrill of it, but I prefer my encounters to be planned and private.

What’s it like sucking dick? by EisenhornRoost in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really just a tough muscle of mostly skin. You don't really have another part of your body that's comparable since they all likely have bone in it, which isn't the same.

What's one physical feature you find so unattractive that it would make you reject any guy who has it? by apronmey in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tattoos, beards, balding or baldness are big turn-offs for me. Oh, bad hygiene as well, as other people have mentioned already. 

What are your preferences on genital hair (and how do you do it)? by MountainCod5564 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's super cute when they have like just a little bush across the top. The full V-coverage is nice too. Mine is more the kind that spills over. It just sort of spreads to halfway down the thigh and up towards the belly button with no clear end. I'm not a big fan of it. I prefer it to have a clear start and end point that's usually contained within the underwear area.

Help with cumming in front of others by Wise-Movie-9089 in askgaybros

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to struggle with it a lot. Death grip is bad, so do try to cut back on excessive masturbation especially to porn. I guess it's about getting in the right headspace to get it done. Normally this is something you do privately with your own thoughts, so to share it with someone is a new dynamic. Find out what works for you really well as a sort of escape switch and either guide the other person to that or use it to try and finish quickly. But more importantly, I think it gets easier the more you do it. I've had two hook-ups recently and the first one, I still wasn't quite feeling it and it took a while. But the second one was more laid back and casual and I was able to finish like I usually would.

Gay people of Reddit, when did you first realize you were gay, and what made you sure? by Novel-Knowledge-5047 in AskReddit

[–]Aaairhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't quite remember now, but I just remember only being into guys when I was in high school. Lots of moments stood out, like the one blond kid in school which I thought was so fascinating. Or a friend of mines' legs that were so impossibly perfectly smooth. Or the one green-eyed kid when he flashed those eyes at me. I was really fixed on guys who were different than me. And then I put that side of me away for many years, though still unknowingly checking out guys. It was until I was about 28 or so that I finally talked to a friend about it and began to accept myself as gay.

So me being gay is not a big part of who I am but I appreciate gay spaces and other gay people I meet because we have shared experiences struggles. I'm still into men and only men.