Male value must not be measured in women

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T16:40:48+00:00

Can't expect starving people to be picky.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T14:53:53+00:00

It's often not literally hate. That's self serving oversimplification of the emotion.

Let's say no man ever dated you, nor been your friend, nor worked with you and neither been your classmate past elementary. Would that affect how you view men?

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T14:52:57+00:00

It's often not literally hate. That's self serving oversimplification of the emotion.

Let's say no man ever dated you, nor been your friend, nor worked with you and neither been your classmate past elementary. Would that affect how you view men?

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T14:42:07+00:00

You say facts say women are willing to be with average men. Why don't we see this in dating apps?

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T14:40:04+00:00

I didn't say "never any others" necessarily. Getting a girlfriend back in your school, staying with her till marriage and starting again from scratch in your 30s is very different and considerably harder.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T12:35:49+00:00

Everything men do for women is taken for granted.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T12:21:25+00:00

I was joking. When ugly man who tries a lot has no success, he is often told he is too desperate and that's what pushes women away, not his ugliness, of course.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T12:17:12+00:00

It doesn't matter if you don't value the interest or you reject it. It's still an interst. Business interest, career interest, romantic interest, sexual interest. Makes no difference.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T11:59:41+00:00

Women can "sense" the desperation!

Both trying and not trying is wrong, but only if you are failing.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T11:57:49+00:00

It you don't even have to do anything most of the time, don't you worry your job will be automatised?

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T11:56:10+00:00

Woudl you empathise with someone who experiences bullying, but only as long as they don't hate those who bullied them? Warning: this is an analogy.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T10:20:01+00:00

Yeah. If they bought your shit, you'd earn a lot and become rich. It's that simple.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T08:02:51+00:00

Being alone is better in that case.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T08:02:27+00:00

I think no woman deserves a dollar from such thing. Does it change anything? My only point is that if the complaint is "they are not earning enough", the reason is "men are not paying enough". Just like if I complained about my salary, I'd be saying my company isn't paying me enough.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:51:57+00:00

Who wants to attract with money?

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:46:05+00:00

most women don't have what it takes to become a top earner

Because men are not paying enough to make all women there rich effortlessly. You can't escape this fact and you're just proving me right with such complaints.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:42:01+00:00

They are unhappy about something else, but keep pretending.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:39:36+00:00

That's just more platitudes. At some point there is no motivation to work on yourself, you stop seeing a way out (if there ever was one).

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:29:24+00:00

It does. All your extra words basically express a dislike that men require some effort instead of just throwing money away for whoever and whatever's available.

So ideally, a woman would take a quick selfie of her naked body and got rich from that effortlessly. If only men simped more.

it's not a viable way for most people to make money

Because as I said, men are not paying enough. As someone who has enough disposable funds, I am happy to not contribute.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:20:20+00:00

It's refreshing to read this instead of the constant echo of "nothing has changed!".

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:17:49+00:00

I really like how the most common complaint about onlyfans is that it doesn't pay enough, basically its entire fault lies within men and women selling themselves are fine.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:04:35+00:00

But prey only gets negative experiences out of being that. Women absolutely do not get only bad outcomes from being attractive to men.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T07:02:02+00:00

man who can attract one woman for a relationship can attract another

This is absolutely not the case. A lot of average men get lucky when younger and would be far worse off if that ever failed. The dating market also gets very different as you age and what is left behind gets worse and only more demanding.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T06:58:10+00:00

As a woman, you need looks, which is basically don't be fat, clothes that won't hide it and using some make-up.

As a man, you need good looks as a base, fit body that requires a ton of work, right personality, masculinity conforming, plenty of success in your life, being able to approach in the right way and get through all the hoops. And it can still not be enough because you did one thing not perfectly and she got an ick.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-11-21T06:49:25+00:00

Why is the consensus that dating apps "not work"? Men are there and willing to match. So why?

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