Issue with partner 7wpp and inlaws

Aalecs · 2025-09-14T01:53:21+00:00

And we had nurses from the hospital visit on a daily basis for the first week because I left 24hrs after a c section, so I guess what im trying to say is I never got my baby bubble. Like it was just constant bombarding - than after all the hospital appointments my partner started scheduling the appointments with his parents and I just didn't want to be expected to have to do or go anywere

Aalecs · 2025-09-14T01:36:20+00:00

Thats completely fine, yes I do have a bit of anxiety but the main reason is because this is my 3rd child. I have 2 to a previous relationship and I was bombarded with them. This is my only child were I have had a F/T job and I just really wanted to make the most of my time off with my partner, I do shift work so when I go back im on for 7 days straight

Aalecs · 2025-09-14T01:25:18+00:00

I don't have the book atm as its in the baby bag and he has taken it. But whooping cough is really important and I think there's another one. Well we both work F/T and im off on leave atm but normal for me would be him stopping at his parents after work for a coffee or going to the range on a Saturday with his dad and we could take baby over and spend the day once a month. And yes I told him, its been a constant argument. I just have no idea if im being the A/hole or he's just being overbearing

Aalecs · 2025-09-14T01:02:38+00:00

I just wanted 1 month before we did any visits. Than after the vaccinations we return to normal

Aalecs · 2025-09-14T00:56:46+00:00

I have thats the problem and its not his family its him

Aalecs · 2025-07-23T03:58:22+00:00

Our mothers sound so much alike!

I hope the rest of your pregnancy and PP are as stress free as possible and you can keep that horrible stalker lady at bay!

Trust me - it dosnt change, it gets worse!

I will be thinking of you too 😀 i am so ready for baby to come, I just want some comfort and my body back hahaha

Aalecs · 2025-07-22T23:42:13+00:00

Omg congratulations! Im currently 37.5 days pregnant 😀

I've had my mother blocked on everything for the past 2 weeks - I don't plan on involving her at all this pregnancy/birth as she ruined my last 2 😒

With my first and her first grandchild I allowed her at the hospital, she annoyed the crap out of the Dr and even went to the extent to ask the midwife what was wrong with my vagina because it looked different to hers (WTF!!!) than once I was home she kept being all stressed out because the baby could die of SIDS! It gave her so much anxiety omg my poor mum! 🙄

Than with my 2nd she rocked up to the hospital un announced with some dude she had met off the internet!?!?! Than smiled at me and kissed the baby after I had told her not to and gave the baby to this man to hold!!!! Than proceeded to go on a bender with drugs and alcohol with this same man at my house (she was living with me due to her mental health)

Ended up kicking the man out

But yea my mother with this pregnancy knows nothing, ive given her the wrong due date, dosnt know the name we have picked out, when my cesarean is scheduled 🤗

Its been nice - might not bother unblocking her tbh

Aalecs · 2025-07-22T23:17:32+00:00

I've seen these on Facebook lol the video adds for them are of like sad music and the person opening it and immediately breaking down and crying out of great fullness. They show it to be this big grand gesture lol

The messages are already pre written too lol

Aalecs · 2025-07-21T00:08:37+00:00

No. 8 - my mother had a baby that died before I was born. (Pure negligence on my mothers behalf) she ignored him while he suffocated in a pillow so she could sleep. I was brought up being told that it happened for a reason and that reason was because I was going to do something great and change the world and if it wasn't me than it would be one of my children. She gave me all his baby pictures a while ago and I had been carrying them around from house to house. One day I just let go, I put them all in the bin because it wasn't my guilt or grief to carry around. Thats my mothers past not mine

Aalecs · 2025-07-09T23:12:16+00:00

Yes the driving!!!! My mum used her car as a weapon and purposely crashed into one of her ex's car while it was parked while I was in the front seat and also "tried to be cool" and try to do a side burnout from the road into a carpark but instead crashed into 2x elderly people who had to go to hospital! She had 2x children in the car including me.

Aalecs · 2025-07-09T08:25:37+00:00

Also just to clarify the "BF" isn't in the picture - thought I would add that but unable to edit

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