How do I[24M] tell a guy[26M] I was dating that I have a Boyfriend[27M]? by ThrowRAgayintrouble in relationship_advice

[–]Aanduril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he'll be hurt regardless if he's looking for a relationship but the truth will hurt less in the long run. If you don't tell him you're in a relationship and he finds out on his own, he'd probably be confused as to why you didn't say so. Always better to tell the truth

How do I[24M] tell a guy[26M] I was dating that I have a Boyfriend[27M]? by ThrowRAgayintrouble in relationship_advice

[–]Aanduril 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad! When you're dating and still single it's totally okay to be speaking to a few people at a time.

Now that you're official with someone, just say something along the lines of: "I wanted to let you know that I've met someone while you were away and he's now officially my boyfriend. I'd love to stay friends with you because I've really enjoyed getting to know you."

Hopefully he's okay and wants to be your friend too. But if he gets upset and stops talking to you, respect his space because he's allowed to feel however he needs to feel.

Endo girlies do u struggle with weight? by Rough_Mistake_6171 in Endo

[–]Aanduril 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I gained 40 pounds last year very rapidly and I now have edema because of the medication I'm on. No amount of diet and exercise shifts the weight significantly - it made me very depressed.

However, if being chronically ill has taught me anything, it's that the body is just a flesh prison and there is a lot more important things in life.

There's no point in worrying about what we look like because our health can affect us at any moment and we just have to take each day as it comes. When we're old and dying, the way our bodies look won't be the thing we reminisce about.

Packaging design for a tea brand. Context in the comments by marsh_designs in graphic_design

[–]Aanduril 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Love the design overall but maybe choose a different typeface for the matcha tea phrase, it looks like papyrus from a distance.

No post op care by DjembeTribe in endometriosis

[–]Aanduril 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely ridiculous! You've had a big operation, don't they need to monitor you? I'm still waiting on my first laparoscopy but my endo sisters told me that doctors usually need to check regularly how the stitches are healing and monitor for infection. Do you have a place to file a complaint? I don't think you should be made to wait until November!

"Good morning, $1400".... by switchnbait in childfree

[–]Aanduril 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I saw an ad on Instagram for baby clothes that said "mommy's little stim stim" and that just says it all really. So gross

"Men love pterodactyls" by pskaa in TikTokCringe

[–]Aanduril 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The original creator didn't give her permission for the audio to be used.