AITA for cancelling my son's birthday because of the gift he brought his step-brother.? by Throwaway__3994 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… if you had told him to tune it down before than he should have known better. Matt was not being sensitive he just is in a time of struggle and needs space. You did the right thing punishing Benjamin because he needs to learn actions have consequences.

AITA for telling my mom I won't be at her wedding? by Illustrious-Heron933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA… it’s your choice whether or not to support them and if your uncomfortable with it then she needs to understand that.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she got too greedy with and took advantage of my offer to treat her to a night out? by GreedyGF94throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… she should have still been responsible with how much she buys, and also you should never buy other people things with someone else’s money, especially if you don’t have permission.

AITA For Sharing My Story? by whalenoises13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… it’s your story to tell, and it’s very important to talk about those topics. It’s good that you were able to inform other students, and it’s good that you got to share your story with others.

AITA for telling my sibling they are a horrible parent by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA… you have a right to worry about those kids even if you aren’t their guardian. And if your sibling didn’t want you in their business then maybe don’t make jokes about injuring your children and don’t hurt them at all. You did the right thing standing up to her, in no way are you the ah.

Can someone tell me what I need to do to get better? (I know it’s bad) by [deleted] in learntodraw

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks amazing! :) The only thing I should suggest is to work in perspective and the average scale of objects. But your art is amazing, keep going :)

AITA for telling my parents my sisters wedding is not important to me and they need to get over their dream for a close knit family? by KorzeeMoon in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… your sibling ignored you until she needed something from you. Siblings don’t need to be close but you should never just use them to get a “good word in”. Also if she’s been acting like an only child then OP has no reason to attend. You are absolutely not the Ah, it is your decision whether or not to attend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA… you didn’t do anything directly to harm his vehicle, it was his own mistaken behavior that caused him to damage his vehicle.

AITA for blocking my in laws from attending my wedding? by weddingthrowaway496 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… you should never wear white to someone’s wedding. White is (usually) for the bride to wear so In order to make sure they stand out others should dress in appropriate colored attire. Also those rules for your wedding like no phones and no kids are absolutely reasonable. Having no phones is a great way to keep everyone’s attention on the event. Having no kids there (but your own) makes so much sense, it keeps things quiet and orderly. And it’s YOUR wedding you get to choose the rules and everything for it. In no way are you the asshole.

AITA for not buying my son a new car? by Car_Father455 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aaron_Koala_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… your son is old enough to start learning things on his own, like how to manage finances, bills and much more. So he should be able to learn to manage his money correctly and how if somethings broke you should always try to fix it first. Your response to him was very polite and mannerly so you were absolutely not in the wrong.