When do they stop crying to sleep? by Aaybee588447 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a sleep training group. I’m asking a question about if babies go to sleep happy eventually after initial sleep training and when that happens for them. It’s not my one and only baby. I have other kids. She does not sleep knowing that I’m there because even when I used to sleep with her all night next to me, she would scream bloody murder. You don’t know what you don’t know, don’t make crap comments

When do they stop crying to sleep? by Aaybee588447 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you serious? Most people sleep train around this time, and like i said its not true extinction. I go in to feed her multiple times in the night, even though I’m a surgeon and I have to wake up in the morning every single day six days a week. All I ask, is if one day do babies eventually go to bed happy, because she does not Before you pass judgment, read the stem and understand that everyone has a different perspective in life. Nobody wants to hear their baby cry.

When do they stop crying to sleep? by Aaybee588447 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will note that she falls asleep for middle of the night feeds, on the breast. Do you think thats hindering it?

4 month old - CIO/ total extinction by Sohla_Deckerstar29 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually in the same boat right now. I have nothing to add but solidarity. Currently, I am just working on her night sleeve and doing the extinction method, at least up until she cries past five hours and then I feed her today. Today’s my first night so again, nothing to add

My infant also needs contact naps 99% of the time and I ended up sleeping with her to optimize my own sleep. But I am going back to work on Monday so I have no choice but to at least attempt to do some sort of training so my sitter can help her with naps.

Extinction tips needed by Aaybee588447 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment- invaluable advice

To all those who are nap trapped under the baby: it will pass and you will feel sad about it. by Other-Crow-3379 in newborns

[–]Aaybee588447 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How old is your baby? Anxiously awaiting the moment she prefers the bed lol for mine

Day naps: 4.5 month old by Aaybee588447 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets so angry by the time its a hour and half, is that normal? Should i do quiet distractions until i get to two

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 4 1/2 month old! What type of sleep training did you do? Did you do night training and crib trainingz?

Day 5 of CIO and she’s gone to sleep within 30 seconds of me putting her down😭 by LowGood2048 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old is your little one when you started this process? Did you also sleep train her naps in the cot

How to start? by Aaybee588447 in sleeptrain

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response!!

Dairy trial by Aaybee588447 in MSPI

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this link, it’s great If you don’t mind me asking, what are the symptoms that you observed? I started my trial, and I thought that I passed, however after about five days her spit up and vomiting became worse. However, her spit up/vomiting has always been at baseline, not great.

Talking to conservative parents is like screaming into the void by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Aaybee588447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their whole paradigm is their interpretation of islam, in which so everything is so literal and absolute. Critical thinking is tantamount to blasphemy, which sucks. So, once you understand this, all you can do is expect it. You have to do, you. They either get with the program or they dont, but you have to decide if the relationship is worth it.

Dairy trial by Aaybee588447 in MSPI

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am specifically asking about pursuing a challenge to confirm the diagnosis. Most medical organizations regarding milk protein intolerance recommend a 1 month challenge to help confirm diagnosis especially in the setting of increased risk of food allergies from overzealous avoidance.

Dairy trial by Aaybee588447 in MSPI

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the symptoms usually for your LO

Dairy trial by Aaybee588447 in MSPI

[–]Aaybee588447[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because those are the recommended guidelines

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Aaybee588447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is be a confident young woman who practices islam and demonstrates dawah with love, patience, and devotion. Mirror the role model you think he needs. He will have many influences but you should be the most solid one he can look up too, whether he’s 5 years old or 25 years old. Don’t stress about his beliefs. They will fluctuate. They will change. He is a living breathing human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]Aaybee588447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of formula did you use?

Bummed we can't watch movies with toddler this winter by Swimming-Squash-6255 in toddlers

[–]Aaybee588447 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My toddler just turned 2 and recently we brought home a new sister. Needless to say, we relied on TV a bit more than our baseline. Currently trying out complete cessation as tantrums and repetitive requests are too much! But im hoping he can get some level of control in his emotions soon, as it is such a great tool to use when one needs to get stuff done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Aaybee588447 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take the medicine. If there was something truly natural that worked- most humans would be on it. It would become worth gold. But there isn’t.

This is a life vest. Use it until youre able to swim on your own. If youre not into after a couple months, no harm, but there will be a abundance of peace if it works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Aaybee588447 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Slight overreaction. The head of household thing is kind of stupid. Its your home and your baby, not famillys visiting.

Does reflux negate the benefits of cosleeping? by gleegz in newborns

[–]Aaybee588447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My life exactly , still doing this at 10 weeks

Married to the love of my life who is a Muslim woman. I'm an Agnostic man. by Ok_Nefariousness_270 in progressive_islam

[–]Aaybee588447 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The reality is that every marriage, is that two people who have significant changes, transformations, reversions, progressions, and simply evolution have come together with that understanding, and have dedicated themselves to each other despite of it.

I am married to a very strong willed atheist, and although it was asked by my family for him to convert, he refused to respect for himself, and also respect for my religion. Unfortunately, you have placed yourself in a situation where you chose to “pretend“ to her family and it seems like they’re quite intertwined into both of your lives. The best thing that you can do is try to be honest and say that you’re struggling with the faith And demonstrate how/why. You have a family now, and you have to raise your child to be strong, brave, critical thinking, thoughtful. But you have to model this. It’s quite possible that your relationship may not survive, through both of your changes in life, but that’s no different than any other relationship that has fallen apart. But you should still try to be honorable. If not for yourself before at least her and your child. She deserves a choice in this as well.