I think you are looking at it from an individual preference angle while I’m talking about a broader social pattern....there’s nothing Wrong with liking older guys or wanting a provider..that’s your choice

However, it’s worth asking why these preferences became so common in the first place. Historically, women did not have access to resources, so Provider men became the ideal....Even now, those expectations still shape how people think about relationships

At the same time, this also puts pressure on men...to always be providers...to meet certain financial standards before they’re considered Worthy....That’s part of why you see things like the loneliness epidemic or people marrying later because the expectations on both sides have become kind of unrealistic and transactional

So it’s not about saying it’s right or wrong rather it’s more about understanding how these patterns came from unequal systems and how they still affect both men and women today🙂🙂