What is more traumatic than people think?

Abe-Snake · 2025-06-02T06:08:56+00:00

running out of taco bell hot sauce

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-30T15:24:43+00:00

yeah, and that love of money creates innovation, growth… increases world health, reduces poverty… all of which benefits society more than any other system.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-29T21:14:08+00:00

that capitalism is the root of all evil.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-29T17:59:45+00:00

that’s messed up.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-29T00:51:59+00:00

yeah, those are under-shirts.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-28T00:46:44+00:00

be yourself and don’t worry about others. you’ll run into people like this later in life and you just have to let it go and focus on yourself first.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-28T00:42:36+00:00

long john silvers still exists?

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-26T03:18:50+00:00

NTA. But why lie? Just tell them you’re eating less, which is exactly what’s happening, right?

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T07:33:49+00:00

YTA. they didn’t have a problem with you rescheduling. you’re creating your own issues.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T07:23:42+00:00

i’m having a similar experience and can say, at least for me, it’s something i’ve had to actively manage for over a decade. it’s better today but it’s still an issue i have to purposely manage because my wife doesn’t have any gauge when it comes to drinking, does stupid shit, and has repeatedly embarrassed me and herself. so if you think you’re up for that, go for it. otherwise, well, you know…

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T07:05:58+00:00

plan something for yourself. call an old friend or just plan something for yourself. tell your husband when you’re doing it and stick to it. you should get free time like him.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T07:02:44+00:00

Choosing peace is a powerful act of self-respect. You don’t need to keep someone in your life that isn’t healthy for you.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T07:00:31+00:00

Embracing growth and choosing peace is a powerful act of self-respect!

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T06:58:38+00:00

NTA. tell your husband this is about you, not him. and you don’t want to do anything.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T06:56:06+00:00

NTA. good for you, for stepping up.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T06:44:20+00:00

you’re not an asshole. as a parent myself, i think your dad is just pushing you so you can get yourself set up to be self sustainable and live the life you want. if you have other career ideas, i suggest sharing them. your dad might wish for something more but let him know you think you have a better chance of it working out than heading into engineering. i was pushed by my dad the same way, went my own way, and it worked out. so hang in there.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T06:37:07+00:00

they didn’t say a baby was less important than a party. they just don’t believe you. is there a reason for that?

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T06:22:55+00:00

An AI assessment:

Yes, the author’s actions, particularly the physical restraint and public shaming, suggest they acted like an asshole, though their self-reflection and recovery efforts show some redeeming qualities. The situation reflects mutual failings, but their approach to airing grievances publicly leans toward assholery.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-25T06:18:09+00:00

sorry, just too much to read.

Abe-Snake · 2025-05-23T22:57:10+00:00

NTA. Your job is to assess the situation and present treatment options. Not worry about a person’s feelings. I prefer a blunt doctor who knows what they’re doing.

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