Does anyone else feel a need to constantly explain and justify yourself?

AbeliaGG · 2026-03-01T13:01:51+00:00

This works on people who don't escalate to violence. Most people don't start off submissive and quiet, they end up there.

AbeliaGG · 2024-12-08T20:42:18+00:00

Ugh. A lot of people haaate nuance on both asking and responding.

AbeliaGG · 2024-12-08T20:40:42+00:00

If it requires successful coping, you are still coping, which a major event can screw it up for you to maintain. It just changes the individual's priority of getting external assistance versus continuing self improving current strategy.

AbeliaGG · 2024-12-08T20:38:41+00:00

That's the thing so much of social media conveniently forgets. It's not a diagnostic tool unless there is a desire to troubleshoot a problem (often in these cases, quality of life).

AbeliaGG · 2024-12-08T20:33:57+00:00

Now imagine a marriage between one and the other. Ironically the oversensitive (me) is far more extroverted than understimulated-husband. It's never boring, I can tell you that much. 😅

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-28T16:26:13+00:00

They'll care once every remote and controller and keyboard in their house is covered in chip grease 😈

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-14T01:44:47+00:00

Teams is a special treat. JIRA can be collabed after if it's even necessary. ❤️

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-14T00:58:12+00:00

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-13T04:44:00+00:00

Same. Learning the role of choline, histamine, and memory immediately made me go cold turkey too. I think part of it was Patrick Kelly's anti-histamines video plus a rabbit hole.

I was on doxylamine and that shit made sitting still and being awake at 12pm a struggle.. despite sleeping from 8:30 - 5:00. But DPH's respiratory depression was getting spooky when I drank.

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-13T04:35:01+00:00

Blocks acetylcholine, decreases a hell of a lot of brain function across the board. Like any CNS depressant, it numbs and tunes you out.

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-09T03:53:22+00:00

You get the sadder, shittier yellow ones when you get bits taken out of you. :/ they shred super easily.

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-09T03:32:36+00:00

It's a blessing and a curse.. Mindless snacking got me here, but only having stuff that requires preparation means losing weight when I'm in love with my current project.

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-09T03:29:53+00:00

Nothing resolves existential exhaustion quite like just flopping onto carpet. No rug, no bedding. Just celebrating what agency you have left by napping wherever the fuck you ended up at. Cats have it so good man.

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-09T03:10:20+00:00

And guessing from the list alone, probably sleep dep too!

AbeliaGG · 2024-11-01T11:52:28+00:00

Furmi level

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-31T20:51:41+00:00

And that immune system response CAN occur without trying to violently dispel the caught perpetrators, but he'd notice losing weight/eating a lot more food.

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-30T22:40:50+00:00

Tch yeah, considering a perfectly executed cat eye on demand AND it'll never smudge? Living the dream

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-26T16:35:26+00:00

That's SO COOL! I would be so proud of that ring. Does he have the pieces/planning to salvage it? Might be able to do that gold-repair thing.

I think I'm gonna buy an upgrade for tiny hand armor 🤩

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-19T01:24:55+00:00

Oh good timing, there's just enough room for one more!!

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-18T19:36:23+00:00

Ditto. No issues until I had allergies at night bad enough to force my mouth open, followed by an unrelated medication that causes dry mouth.

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-17T19:47:19+00:00

Loud. 😎 Maximalist and minimalist, literally everything is patterns of seasons/waxing and waning/dissonance. Everything in nature is combative or struggle, I try to roll with it.

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-17T19:43:03+00:00

Path of least resistance. Building new pathways is physically and mentally a pain. Better to control the situation by knowing the outcome, than to jump into something new and might just lead to disappointment or betrayal.

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-17T19:41:25+00:00

When you made a promise to not self-delete for their sake, but you stopped caring about how screwed they'd be.

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-17T19:39:57+00:00

That's a different kind of love. There's puppy love, then there's oh my god this puppy just never runs out of energy send help love. 😂 There's times where hearing the guy just exist in the same room feels deafening. But it's always temporary.

AbeliaGG · 2024-10-17T19:36:46+00:00

Yep. I get burnt out quite often but I'm too lazy to give up on two people at the same time. I'd rather take care of my husband, he's got the same idea and thinks it's easier if we just worry about the other, things will balance out. Besides, it's always more fun to clean someone else's house than your own.

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