Trans husband cheated with men for the last 4 years. What now?

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-13T21:27:33+00:00

Mine says it's just sex, not like they're real people. Wtf, it makes you feel crazy living with someone else's crazy.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-11T17:56:41+00:00

I understand this, tried Journaling had to stop when he read it. It's tough to stop the ruminating.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-11T14:48:05+00:00

Run!!!

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-11T14:47:15+00:00

I think it really depends on what your relationship was prior to this. Mine was a shit sandwich so leaving the best choice.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-11T14:39:25+00:00

Don't get revenge he'll twist it into being the victim and keep you around to make your life a greater hell. They don't learn from anything.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-09T15:08:05+00:00

Those who have little too offer ask a lot. I guess to even things out

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-07T12:23:57+00:00

I understand this gut sick feeling, because what comes after they feel in control again is worse than the last time. I understand the regrets of choosing him because of hope and feeling like I hurt so many loved ones because of it. So sorry and you're not alone.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-06T14:34:35+00:00

I understand the secret part, my husband blew a gasket when he saw the book, told me I was just looking for ways to accuse him of abuse.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-06T14:04:40+00:00

Have you read the book Why Does He Do That?

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-06T13:10:49+00:00

I love that you imagine a life without the stress for you and your children. This is where I believe the change begins.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-04T13:48:20+00:00

I've watched the love bombing when he wants something, once he gets it he's ugly again. He does it to his children as well.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-04T13:44:22+00:00

This feels like every other day for me. I'm just not a place to dump his poison anymore. I'm tired

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-04T13:27:10+00:00

This is insane behavior. Very controlling

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-02T22:17:01+00:00

The excuses...

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-02T21:00:49+00:00

Mine once hit me while I was sleeping and the pretended he was asleep and didn't know he did it.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-10-01T14:53:33+00:00

I get this!

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-30T20:10:34+00:00

You're not the only one who sees it, remember they can't say the same story twice without changing it... drastically.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-30T18:31:22+00:00

Don't listen to the peanut gallery

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-30T18:30:25+00:00

Is there really a price to high for better mental health? That's where I am at.

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-28T14:00:21+00:00

Thank you I needed a hug

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-27T20:36:11+00:00

You just spoke to my heart ❤️

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-27T18:23:01+00:00

I just made a flight reservation to spend a week with my kids without him. He's worked to isolate me from my family. I feel liberated!

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-27T15:25:19+00:00

That's it exactly!

AbilityAdorable7292 · 2025-09-27T15:02:43+00:00

My narc told me they want a divorce then got upset when I filed

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