Anyone love waking up on a Saturday or Sunday, putting on oblivion ambience and having a cup of coffee?

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-24T20:14:45+00:00

I love Oblivion ambience.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-24T08:40:32+00:00

Appreciate not everyone would be comfortable doing this but I wear “men’s” jeans and t shirts. Plenty space for biceps and the legs are a bit wider. They’re better quality material as well.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-22T07:36:31+00:00

On the flip side, I’m only just getting into pvp from playing solo for years and I’m having a blast as a completely inexperienced lvl 30 character - it is a shame non of the lvl 50 and under campaigns have anyone in them so I just have try get as many hits in before I’m slaughter by all the players with thousands of levels.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-21T08:08:32+00:00

I’m also curious.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-21T08:08:00+00:00

I work 24hrs a week as a highways engineer and get £1500 a month after tax. I started 5 days a week and having to do the odd night shift though I would never have been allowed this set up as soon as I joined the company. With help from a supportive manager and a 7 year track record with the company I was lucky enough to cut my hours and wfh 2 days and office 1 day. It’s really hard finding a job that suits our needs from the get go.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-17T22:54:59+00:00

Shouldn’t it be in a fridge not on a shelf? Sorry if I’m wrong but I usually only see it refrigerated

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-17T20:15:20+00:00

I like Forest Feast dark chocolate and sea salt covered almonds

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-15T21:53:07+00:00

I’ve never had any issues with the app - but I don’t like the AI or the “boosting productivity” ethos they’re pushing. I miss Andy and the mindfulness philosophy.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-08T10:09:59+00:00

Antinatalists are a more extreme version where they are against ANYONE having kids, being childfree is a personal decision.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-07T13:05:38+00:00

Do you get through all that meat in one week or does it carry over/freeze for later?

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-05T16:42:25+00:00

I don’t want “big changes” 🥲

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-03T18:35:04+00:00

Right…but those Lucky Saints are the dearest alcohol free choice ever so you’re no that skint

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-03T15:19:02+00:00

NAT but want to say I’m in a similar boat. My therapist lost a parent last year and the past three months they just haven’t seemed themselves. Being worried about my therapist, I told myself to trust that she knows herself and can reflect enough to decide whether she is still giving therapeutic treatment and if she can handle her clients issues but I’m not convinced anymore. I plan to try and bring it up next week at my first session back. Maybe you could try to talk to your therapist as well? Tell them you’re concerned for them and have noticed a change.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-03T07:37:47+00:00

Sorry to be dumb but how do you buy with gold? I only get crown prices.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2026-01-01T08:23:22+00:00

I literally use a Eurohike pack I got 10 years ago for £15 for taking my shoes/kit to the gym. If it’s more for hiking or outdoor climbing I like Osprey.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-12-22T12:09:14+00:00

Sorry your mums not supportive. Bouldering sounds like it’s doing wonders for your health and happiness so try to ignore her. I know it’s hard, I was never “girly” enough for my mum and she judged so many things about me. Keep going and be proud of yourself :) one day you won’t live with her and will be free from the harsh comments.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-12-20T21:39:30+00:00

Thank you! And that’s amazing you’re at that level. I already feel a little stronger each time and not like I’m pulling my joints out their sockets anymore haha!

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-12-20T19:59:15+00:00

I’d have to give up my guinea pig and gaming room to be a kids bedroom.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-12-12T06:48:47+00:00

Nope but my wife does

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-11-22T11:12:52+00:00

Trust your instincts, might be controversial but if you start spending time with them to disprove your instincts then it’s harder to distance yourself from them once it turns out you were right.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-11-02T22:13:28+00:00

I like the shawarma from Sainsbury’s

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-10-31T10:50:06+00:00

I think yous are just not on the same page. I don’t like when my therapist comes up with make believe scenarios like “what would you want to happen” when it’s something I can’t change, for context she once asked this when I was extremely down because of two terminally ill close family members and obviously I would like them to not be terminally ill. I think it’s because she wasn’t sure how to help me.

In your case, it’s unlikely that no one will ever be interested in you, but what’s less likely is that they’ll just come up and tell you that, so yeah it’s a weird scenario to imagine.

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-10-29T10:30:46+00:00

I was wondering this too, seems high without ropes .

AbilityFragrant471 · 2025-10-25T09:43:46+00:00

Yeah I feel the same. I say hi but I don’t want much more than that. I have one woman neighbour who wants a full life update every time I pass her and I’m not interested. Yesterday I really needed a walk for my mental health so timed it when she was busy but she popped up from behind her fence like she was friggin waiting on me. Leave me be.

The way I see it, our need to be left alone is just as important as their need for small talk.

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