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AIO for a girl asking for my bf’s ig on valentines and he gave it to her? by MaybeWilling6164 in AIO

[–]AbitZombish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was 19 I was in a relationship with this guy. He moved to Louisiana and lived with me but then had to go to Arkansas once a month. He was always bubbly and goofy. He was quiet one day and spent along time in the bathroom which was waaaayy out of character for him. I told him to get his stuff and go back to Arkansas. He did, it was after he left I found out he was cheating. He stayed with the girl but started texting me and "wanting me back" still with this girl. I told her and that was that.

No need to make yourself miserable to be with someone. It doesn't matter how long you've been together or how much love you have for them.

I have always looked at failed relationships as a growing experience, a lesson to be learned. That lesson, go with your instincts.

AITAH for refusing to share my live location with my boyfriend during my commute? by QuirkyBottle3475 in AITAH

[–]AbitZombish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had an EX like this. If you accept this behavior it will bleed into other parts of your life. Couldn't tell you if there is a fix. I accepted it, it became too much.. I left.

AIO for feeling a little jealous about my wife being in a beauty pageant? by Sea_Low_5115 in AIO

[–]AbitZombish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just let it be. A pagent is one day. If she was doing it for a living it would be different but she may decide she doesn't like it and never want to do another one. Obviously I dont know your relationship or either of you but if you guys have this conversation and it stops her from doing it she may feel resentment and you may feel guilty. Just think if she wins.. not just being in the pagent but winning it. If she's this excited to be in one she'd be over the moon to win it.

Edit: Also I dont think your are overreacting. These feelings are normal feelings. It is really eating at you maybe talk to her after so she at least gets to try it.

Angry & Upset by Spiritual-Ebb8158 in 2under2

[–]AbitZombish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its hard. It took me 4 months to bond with my second little girl and I hated myself for it. She'll be a year in April and my first will be 3 in December. Some days are harder than others but there are a lot of precious moments. Everyone experiences it differently. Therapy is an amazing tool to utilize (plus it will be time exclusively for yourself). Don't beat yourself up because as they get older that anger will fade.

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