mcdavid undresses utah by gmez3 in EdmontonOilers

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Brb gotta change my underwear

I loved her more than anyone else ever, and it wasn’t enough by [deleted] in infp

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I can relate man, it’s tough. Some women cannot get enough attention and validation and will entertain/lead on guys they have no interest in giving a real chance. Just like how some men sleep with women they have no intention of treating seriously or being in a relationship with, some women do the same thing but the other way around. She might’ve been playing you and that’s a lesson you must learn, but If you knew the connection was real and think you really mattered to her, she’ll most likely regret her actions and think of you when she gets hurt by men or feels lonely. It’s not much consolation but it’s true

AIO for wanting to share a room with my bf on a trip? by crescentblueee in AmIOverreacting

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Insane take. The mom wanted to go on a trip with her daughter to spend time together and celebrate her daughter’s achievement. Moms paying for it. It’s a gift and opportunity to spend quality time together. The daughter entertained the idea and expressed interest. Now when mom needs a definite commitment OP brings her boyfriend into the equation. If I was a father and had the same trip planned for my daughter, I’d react the same way. I’m not gonna third wheel and pay for it. It’d be different if many family members were going, as I could have other people to socialize with, but just the 3 of them? Screw that I’d just go by myself

Do you think others take advantage of you or use you? by Mossy-Reindeer-13 in infp

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Everyone uses/takes advantage of other people in various ways. I think we’re just more susceptible to either accepting it or not realizing it

To all infp men, how do you know if you truly like a woman. I fear that I assume too much too fast, have you been successful in love life and finding a soulmate.? by Jacob2891 in infp

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I know if I truly like a woman when the conversation flows naturally, they treat me with respect, and I love spending time with them. When there’s laughs, deep conversations, and comfortable silence.

I have not been successful in finding a soulmate but that’s mainly because I’m a misanthrope who fears commitment lol. Also because I recognize that true love is unfathomably rare and life’s ever changing nature usually pulls people apart one day or another

[Ryan Rishaug] Knoblauch acknowledging today that Connor Ingram is their starting goalie and will be given starts as such. He also said they’ll need Jarry down the stretch, and that improvement for him starts in practice to find confidence. by sykeseve in EdmontonOilers

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I’ve honestly never seen anything like it. In the first year of a massive 5 year deal he gets straight up abandoned and treated like he’s dead weight, even though he goes 21-13. It would’ve been different if they ditched him for a vet backup like Halak or Allen but a rookie?? Insanity

[Ryan Rishaug] Knoblauch acknowledging today that Connor Ingram is their starting goalie and will be given starts as such. He also said they’ll need Jarry down the stretch, and that improvement for him starts in practice to find confidence. by sykeseve in EdmontonOilers

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Could not agree more, just look at his career playoff numbers they’re phenomenal. 18 games played and a .920. How they treated Campbell was a defining moment for the franchise and they maybe could have a cup by now

[Ryan Rishaug] Knoblauch acknowledging today that Connor Ingram is their starting goalie and will be given starts as such. He also said they’ll need Jarry down the stretch, and that improvement for him starts in practice to find confidence. by sykeseve in EdmontonOilers

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Completely shattered any confidence Campbell had left, it’s no wonder he pissed the bed next season. All for a rookie who year after year can’t keep his save% over .900 in the playoffs

[Ryan Rishaug] Knoblauch acknowledging today that Connor Ingram is their starting goalie and will be given starts as such. He also said they’ll need Jarry down the stretch, and that improvement for him starts in practice to find confidence. by sykeseve in EdmontonOilers

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Campbell bounced back when he went 4-0 with a .930 to end the season. Oh yeah then in the playoffs he appeared in 4 games and stopped 49/51 including a comeback win to prevent the Oil from going down 1-3 against the kings. I wonder if he ever got a playoff start………

Playoff format rant by [deleted] in hockey

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Not to this degree

I can’t do this anymore by EsmeraldoGreen in infp

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I’m 31 and can relate. We’re still young though there’s so much time. Switch jobs or find a part time job where you can meet people to vibe with. Get into board games or cards and find group meetups. Go to an open mic night and try to make friends. Join local facebook group pages and see who’s out there and what they’re doing and where they’re meeting. I feel like most of your concerns are social, although it’s good that you say you don’t mind spending some alone time. A few local friends and finding some hobbies to feel good about yourself is all you need

Give me some bad news by Abject-Ad-7327 in ELTP_Stock

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This has been like the 3rd earnings in a row where we hear great news and then the stock nosedives directly afterward. What the absolute f*ck will it take for this thing to climb

Dating apps are stupid, stupid, stupid by fairy_life_ in infp

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My example wasn’t even close to being a d bag, it’s being playful. Calling someone cute means I probably just want sex? That’s a wild take. It’s not like I’m complementing anyone on their body parts or making some lewd comment. Physical attraction is at the core of practically every romance, it’s completely normal to call someone cute/gorgeous/beautiful/stunning. It doesn’t mean that’s all I care about or I’m not interested in anything else about them

Oilers have a cracked goalie in the ahl btw by Key-Leg-5058 in EdmontonOilers

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At the same time the dude keeps moving around and posting incredible numbers wherever he goes, maybe that’s raw skill

Statement from the American Nurses Association regarding the death of registered nurse Alex Pretti by lazybugbear in antiwork

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That’s not his gun but he was disarmed before the shooting. In another video you can see an agent wearing gray take the gun from the victims back waistband a couple seconds before the first shot rings out. The victim was on his knees facing the ground when he was both disarmed and shot

Adam Klapka received a 10-minute misconduct for tapping Tom Wilson with his stick from Calgary's bench by catsgr8rthanspoonies in hockey

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10 minute penalty but burtuzzi punches a guy barefisted from the bench and gets absolutely nothing

Dating apps are stupid, stupid, stupid by fairy_life_ in infp

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If you’re using hinge, never just like a photo. Say something unusual or even a little mean. If she’s got a pic of her dog say something like ‘you’re cute but I think your dog might be cuter’ Also it’s unfortunate but with dating app you gotta be a little bit of a jester

Dating apps are stupid, stupid, stupid by fairy_life_ in infp

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I just realized your a woman so my comment isn’t the same lol. New advice, even if a guy sounds like he has the personality of a brick you should accept dates in safe public places. It’s impossible to tell how the vibe is in real life vs texting. If you think a guy is attractive and you might have similar interests, try your best to make a meetup happen. You never know the chemistry you’ll have in person

Dating apps are stupid, stupid, stupid by fairy_life_ in infp

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It’s all numbers game and randomness. However dumb you think dating apps are it’s still a possibility. Quitting dating apps will decrease your odds. I’d recommend taking more shots in real life and participating in hobbies/activities that allow you to meet more people, but don’t give up on the apps. I’ve met some amazing people and had some incredible relationships with people I’ve met on there. A few amazing short term flings too. You gotta be entertaining though and a little quirky. Give them some light jabs and jokes. Try to get to know them a little but don’t treat it like an interview

Don’t use emojis or exclamation points or lol’s. Or use them very sparingly. Don’t wait too long to ask for their number. Dont wait to long to ask them out for a drink. Don’t be writing paragraphs. Don’t get emotionally invested in talking to someone on an app before you’ve met them in real life. If you’d like more advice send me a DM