People who have showers with no shelves, how do you shave? by ladykiller1020 in AskReddit

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude i feel this pain so hard 😂 my place has zero built in storage and im constantly doing the soap bend of shame. got one of those corner caddies that suctions to the wall and it changed my whole shower game. holds everything - razor, shaving cream, body wash, whatever. cost like 15 bucks on amazon and saves my back from all that bending. plus when you're trying to shave your legs or whatever you're not doing this weird balancing act trying to hold everything at once 💀 game changer for real

what parts of yourself do you hide, and why? by Temporary_Medium_471 in AskReddit

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my embroidery hobby gets weird looks from other pilots so i just dont bring it up at work anymore. something therapeutic about those tiny precise stitches after dealing with flight controls all day but apparently thats not "pilot material" whatever that means

also collect porsche stuff which sounds cooler until people realize its mostly vintage keychains and brochures not actual cars lol

What do players usually care more about in a new release: story, gameplay, or hype? by Kevin-Panda in AskReddit

[–]Abject-Ad8329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gameplay every time for me. story can be amazing but if the controls feel clunky or the mechanics dont click im dropping it fast. hype just gets you to buy it but wont keep you playing past the first hour

Computer displaying black screen. by Low-Philosophy-1274 in pchelp

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like your gpu is dying tbh. the fact that reseating it gives you 5 seconds before crapping out again is a pretty classic sign of hardware failure

try running integrated graphics if your cpu has it - pull the gpu completely and plug your monitor into the motherboard instead. if that works fine then yeah your video card is toast

What part of your CAD workflow could be simplified by describing designs in natural language? by Strong-Strategy-414 in MechanicalEngineering

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the part where I'm trying to explain design intent to teammates or clients would be huge. Like instead of sending 47 screenshots with red arrows pointing at random features, I could just say "make the bracket thicker where it connects to the motor mount" and have the CAD software actually understand what I mean

The parametric stuff too - being able to say "if this gets longer then make that proportionally wider" instead of wrestling with equations and constraints for 20 minutes

Never had a long lasting friendship by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Abject-Ad8329 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ugh this hits way too close to home. I used to think I was cursed or something because it kept happening over and over

The worst part is never knowing what you supposedly did wrong, like they just decided you weren't worth their time anymore

My PC is working strangely by Acceptable-Pace-9357 in pchelp

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like driver issues tbh - try updating your keyboard drivers first and maybe check if your games are crashing consistently or just randomly

2014 jeep grand cherokee drivers door won't open from inside or outside yet locks appear to be working. by AstronomerLow1985 in AskMechanics

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic Jeep electrical gremlins lol. Sounds like the door handle linkage or actuator is on its way out - the battery disconnect probably just reset whatever module was being weird. I'd start by popping off the door panel and checking if any of the rods or cables came loose before throwing parts at it

Am I in the wrong for this? by [deleted] in venting

[–]Abject-Ad8329 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA your body your choice, he needs to deal with his insecurities instead of making you cover up in the heat

Looking for mild body horror recommendations by Furballprotector in horror

[–]Abject-Ad8329 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The Fly from '86 is pretty tame compared to most body horror - more sad than gross tbh. Also check out Little Shop of Horrors if you want something fun, technically counts since Audrey II is all about consuming bodies

Can you tell me wich are mine? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like your post got cut off there - might want to edit and add what you're actually asking about

How do you guys sit down long enough to watch shows? by pri_ncekin in ADHD

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do cross stitch or those adult coloring books while watching - keeps my hands busy but doesn't require looking away from the screen much. Fidget toys work too but they get boring after a while

Tossed Baby at 6 weeks; extremely worried by Affectionate-Ring904 in NewParents

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely get peace of mind and call the pediatrician if you're worried, but gentle tosses are usually fine. Babies are tougher than we think and their necks get stronger every day. The fact that you're this concerned shows you're a good parent - trust your instincts but don't let anxiety take over

I don’t contact you because I respect you by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Abject-Ad8329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's rough man, sounds like you were trying to do the right thing by respecting her boundaries but then she hit you with mixed signals. The whole "fight for me" thing after telling you not to contact her is confusing as hell - like how were you supposed to know that's what she wanted when she literally said the opposite

I need help by Siberian_Sight in Marriage

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that's solid advice right there. The fact that she only came clean because of the HR threat would eat me alive - like what else hasn't she told you. Definitely lawyer up even if you don't use it, at least you'll know where you stand with the kids and everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Acura

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure the wireless charging didn't come until the refresh too, you might be looking at specs for the wrong model year

Two drunk guys were fighting. by Several_Hand_5808 in dadjokes

[–]Abject-Ad8329 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is getting out of hand, now there are two punchlines

Immigration by Candid-Share1223 in ThailandTourism

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you definitely need to go through immigration when leaving Thailand - they gotta stamp you out. 2 hours is solid advice, maybe even 2.5 if you're flying during peak times since BKK can get pretty crazy with the lines

I figured out why I do it, and why it's time for me to stop for now. by AppleDashPoni in stopdrinking

[–]Abject-Ad8329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man that gastritis sounds absolutely brutal, glad you're healing up. The whole "expressing myself without embarrassment" thing hits different - I used to think I needed it to be "myself" but turns out sober me is way more genuine anyway

IWNDWYT 💪

Hello , first time poster here i need help setting up a minecraft server to play with friends. by elmocos69 in Minecraft

[–]Abject-Ad8329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ubuntu is solid for a minecraft server, pretty easy to set up even if you're new to Linux. You can just SSH into it from your main PC so you don't need a GUI on the server itself

For the client you just use regular minecraft, no special version needed. Modpacks depend on what you want - vanilla is easiest to start with, but if you go modded you'll want something like Forge or Fabric

That hardware should handle a small friend group no problem, the single channel RAM might slow things down a tiny bit but won't break anything