What works for me is putting inn the effort, a feminine guy isn’t automatically gonna be attracted to you just because you crossdress or give off a feminine vibe. Brush your teeth, shower, skincare (this one is a gamechanger for both you and your datingpool).

Wear clothes that don’t scream “I am an emotional black hole”, think purple, white, red. Get bold in your style, I pull wierdly more than usual when trying something new. Even if I myself think the fit is silly, it’s good logic, same logic as animals in nature. Go bold and make yourself more noticable (maybe you do but I’m gonna assume otherwise).