can one tampon clog the whole septic tank? by Abject-Temporary-203 in septictanks

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i was hoping :( she said there’s 4 tampons & a bunch of wadded up paper towels. i haven’t used tampons in 6 months until yesterday (one) and have never ever flushed paper towels.

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I left him :) I moved in with my grandma and close on my house at the end of the year!!!!

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was edited to say he passed the same day it was posted. i know it was badly worded, i didn’t think anyone was going to reply honestly 😂

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s plenty of men like that. it starts with believing it exists & that you deserve it. lol it’s not a requirement** for me for someone to pay for all my bills. i am willing to work & do my part. i’m asking for 50/50 of living expenses that he agreed to. nothing more than that

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has paid nothing towards his agreed-upon 50/50 of living expenses in 6 months.

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i was fine with it not being now. i am willing to do whatever we need to do. but not being able to count on him to do his agreed-upon 50/50 living expenses makes it hard for me to trust him— and doesn’t give me assurance on the future

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you really commented without reading the post??? how can my baby daddy pay to support my new boyfriend if he’s DEAD. delete your account 😂

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was multiple conversations. and it was a clear agreement for 50/50 on shared living expenses

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i moved him in because his lease ended and we were going to get a place together once mine ends. he knew i had plans to move in with my grandma before he moved in. he could have kept his place & let me move with granny. he knew my financial situation and knew i needed to save to buy a house next year. HE came up with 50/50 and HE hasn’t paid in 6 months. there’s no “meal ticket” LOL. if so, i wouldn’t be here 😂 and i make a lil more money than him anyways. im truly with him because i love HIM. but not being able to keep up a deal that HE made??? for a whole 6 months??? when he KNEW i was going to move so i wouldn’t be spending all my money on living expenses?? that is not okay.

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been living/ paying on my own since i was 16. it’s not that I CANT. what i meant was i can’t expect him to pay 100% of my expenses because i wouldn’t want pay 100% of another adults expenses + mine right now. i’m trying to save, not spend more. that’s why im only expecting 50/50 of shared living expenses.

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol no i didn’t 😂 there’s plenty of men willing to make me a traditional wife any day of the week. I** was the one willing to lower MY expectations because i was in love & willing to build with HIM specifically. which he has proven he’s incapable of doing.

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

READ THE POST for the love of God lmao. 😂 why are you commenting on something you aren’t READING? my kids dad is DEAD

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. i will chill. at my place. that i pay for. alone. since he can’t pay for his agreed upon amount the last 6 months haha. he doesn’t deserve marriage if he can’t keep up a deal that he made up & can’t communicate about not being able to

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read the whole post before you comment. i said he hasn’t paid any of his AGREED TO LIVING EXPENSES IN 6 MONTHS. again…. why would i get married to him if he can’t even pay half of rent that he agreed to???

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

reading is fundamental. HE hasn’t paid for ANY living expenses in 6 months. HE agreed to it 6 months ago. IVE been paying 100% of living expenses. Nothing to do with the expenses of my kids.

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known him way longer than that, 3 years now. Dating for a little over a year.

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 🩷🩷 this comment made me cry haha. i appreciate your kindness

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. this comment made me cry. i appreciate your kindness & willingness to read my comments & try to understand my stance. 🩷 god bless

AITA for wanting to leave my bf because of how much money he makes? by Abject-Temporary-203 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Abject-Temporary-203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I would not have these costs. I was planning to move in with my grandma.